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I dont know why but i have this weird feeling in school.. im 18.. i loved my previous schools, i had lovely friends and total fun.. Here,I'm not able to be myself,im like a retard and not so good looking. Sometimes i feel very lonely and pathetic,like bombing my university. What should i do? I don't have good roomies and friends.
Okay firstly, don't go and drop a bomb on anything! :) I know you were only kidding.
Anyway, I am sure you are not retarded or ugly you probably just feel out of place. Maybe you could join a co-curricular group that does activities you enjoy? That way, you have a better chance of meeting like-minded people. Regarding your roommates, perhaps you could try and give it just a little bit more time. That way you can really get to know them and then decide wether there really is going to be major problems later on.
Just remember to have self confidence because you are not pathetic! Good luck!
I got a similar story to you as well, but i started to get along after i changed my self, i don't know how to sort your situation but i stuck my self up , i hated being in the dark corner spectating everyone. I'm not good looking as well but i just started to be confident, i usually ask my friends if the want to go out or something like to the cinema to watch a video or go out partying or ask them for a sleepover and watch movies at night or gossip. I'm retarded as well , but who cares , at least were trying our best at school or something.
just try to remember that this is where you will be staying for the next x years, so put your priority's first, like your schoolwork, but don't forget to enjoy yourself while your at it, get involved, be more social, just be yourself and don't worry about 1st, 2nd, or even 3rd impressions because if they don't agree with your personality than that's thire loss. good luck and i hope this helped:)