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is it fucked up to lie about your past to your partner? like who you’ve been with, stuff you’ve done or if you have loved other people before?
my belief is that if yallre gonna get married then the truth shall prevail no matter how ugly
if its just someone yallre bangin then its nonea their fuckin business
It isn't good and chances are if they find out they can dump you ( depends on the severity of the lie. )
Why lie? What can realistically be accomplished that is positive.
We all have a sexual past (including virgins: on what they think and previous partial occurrences).
If you are looking for real trust and a real relationship - there is never a reason to lie. Not saying that you have to tell all.
When I met my wife we both told each other that we had past partners (and we both expected that at our ages).
There was no further discussion until we started talking about marriage; when we both volunteered more information about certain relationships or situations. However, I don't think either of us have ever told all. There's just no need for that.