Male friend suggested circle jerk iin?

I'm a guy 34 years old. A male friend (married for 5 years with 3 kids , ) suggested one night, "Hey, why don't we go back to your place, we can watch porn and jerk off together?"

I said, 'No thanks'.

For me that would have been totally gay.

Is it normal that a guy asks a guy friend to jerk off together?

Do any straight guys do this with male friends?

Or is he really gay/bi?

Is it normal?

Yes it's normal, lots of straight guys do it 60
Yes it's ok, if your'e both GAY or bi 25
No way - it's gay 24
No - just no 27
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  • Azaman

    The mentality of men is funny. Jerking off your friend - totally straight. Kiss another guy - gay as it gets. Hm.

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  • MichaelMyersindarkness

    Mate, if your story is real I would say take up your friends offer. Go back to your place and watch some porn. It is not gay as long as you guys don't touch cocks. You might find it interesting to see another man cum in front of you. None of this is gay at all. Try and see who can last the longest while wanking it to an agreed upon porn scene. Watch each others expressions when you know one of you are about to cum.

    Like i said it mightbe interesting, but none of this is gay at all. This is all completely straight. Straight guys jerk off together all the time mate.

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    • Sounds like you've had a lot of circle jerk experience with your gay mates.

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      • sandnigga

        maybe it wont be gay in your mind, but it might be gay in your friends mind lol

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      • MichaelMyersindarkness

        Nah. I have had only one experience with a mate long ago. We were watching the movie jarhead and got bored. I remember we actually wanked each other off until completion. The only reason that it was not gay was because we did not touch cocks or anything. I remember he was not circumcised and it was weird watching his cum spurt all over my hand. It was all in good fun. It wasnt gay at all though.

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        • sandnigga

          thats fking gay, what are you talking about?

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          • Dunga

            Typical gay trolls here, they pretend to be straight to make people think straight guys enjoy those craps too. But the fact is we do not, and thats what makes him gay no matter how much he denies it. They may claim that everyone is like that, but as a real straight man I can proudly say I am not and they have no right to speak on behalf of us based on their gay perceptions. Nothing wrong with it, but they are definitely not straight, and are gay/bi and are trolling if they deny it. They find this thigs hot or whatever but we find them disgusting and no one has the right to force us to like what we do not...

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            • sandnigga

              exactly, its like saying straight guys enjoy getting plowed in the ass!

              haha, its like where do you draw the limit?

              is nothing gay? is that just part of my imagination?

              its like the denial of wanting to be called gay, but wanting to be gay at the same time lol

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        • NorthVanJojo

          u say the only reason it wasn't gay at all is cause u didn't touch dicks but u also said u jerk'd each other off thats totally a bi sexual act just cause he has a loving wife doesn't make him str8 after jerking u to completion maybe a gay act for u for all we know you've never been with a girl so it definitely isn't not gay but theres nothing wrong with it? (;

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        • sandnigga

          im bi-sexual and i conclude that jerking each other off is gay

          a totally straight guy wouldnt even want to see another dick

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        • bigfatdick4

          I concur, jerking off a mate or even a brother is totally normal, even letting them jerk you off...just don`t get into kissing each other, that`s as fucking gay as it gets!

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          • LindsayK

            that all sound as gay as it gets pretty twisted? if u think its not gay or at least bi and that u think u and your brothers/friends jerkin each other is normal i guess its safe to assume your full on gay and never been with a girl?

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            • bigfatdick4

              No my dear friend you have it all wrong.I am happily married, have been for the last thirty years!

              I am just saying that when you are young and experimenting with your sexuality, there is absolutely nothing Gay about playing with somebody else, besides your own dick!

              It is all about pleasuring and being been pleasured by somebody else. A different hand giving the strokes makes it more pleasurable, as you have the liberty of not knowing how fast or slow the jerky will be jerking, thus you will also not know when he is going to pick up the pace and bring you to orgasm!

              It is sometimes quite boring when you masturbate your own dick, as you will know exactly when you are going to "pick up the pace" so to speak and bring yourself to orgasm, the unknown orgasm is much better than known!

              Is there anything else that is unclear about my answer? Feel free to ask anytime!

              My question to you is, are you of the male or female persuasion? Have you let anybody of the same sex touch you inappropriately?

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  • LindsayK

    sounds like sumthin Lil Wayne would say

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  • kla631

    Its more or less a male bonding thing. If you're not into it, it is OK. No shame in asking though.

    Even if you give each other a hand, its still not gay. Gay is not the sexual act--ask any inmate who has sex with another inmate then once out, goes right back to women--gay is more an emotional, attraction thing, same attraction some have towards the opposite sex but towards the same sex.

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  • youDon'tKnowMe>:P

    The problem here is that he's married with children. The prospect of potential gaydome pales before violator of marriage-dome I think

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  • mlenny

    I accidentally hit one of the options, but I'm not sure which one it was, so I'll give my opinion in words. It's not a super uncommon behavior, even among heterosexual males, but not something that is totally commonplace. Do what you want, man. No judgement. The intolerant can get bent. Your private life is in nobody else's sphere of jurisdiction, so to speak.

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    • I don't have any problem with guys doing that if that's what they're into, but it's just not my thing.

      I must admit tho, that when I was a kid (12 or 13 years old) my best friend and I used to lie on our backs in summertime in the cornfields and jerk off together (our cocks even touched)

      But that was then, I was just a kid, this is now. I'm an adult and I am only attracted to women and their juicy pussies, not men and their cocks.

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  • bittermayonnaise

    You could of played 'soggy sao'.

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  • mrbrownfinger

    saying "no homo" at the end makes it not gay at all. Go for it.

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