Man i knew for two years and whom i started dating has a wife

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I need help on what to do.

I met this man on Instagram two years ago and we started talking and he was a big flirt but he lives in a state far away from me so we didn't get to meet yet but we were finally about to meet because we became a couple. I talked to him on video chat a few times a week for TWO YEARS as friends at first but last 4 weeks as more. He always begged to date me and I finally said okay and i knew he was a real guy and we text at least every other day and I saw his Instagram he was always single in his pics so I never questioned it

but something felt weird suddenly so I decided to look up his name and see if he had another account..he did but it was private and he had @ a woman's account saying "my wife" I clicked it and hers was public and there he was in nearly every photo with her married. And new photos of him and her together on their ANNIVERSARY a week ago!!! and his comment on her photo of them let me copy paste because who cares:

"My love, my best friend, my life. You are the best soul mate I could ever imagine. You are God's angel on earth. 4 years married to you making magical memories with our three beautiful children. I'm blessed."

What?? He flirted with me two years and sent photos of himself constantly, begged to date me and finally I say yes and he's planning my trip to fly down to see him, he even bought me tickets!!! And hes married!!! What do I do???

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  • Orphan
    1 year ago

    He should of just been upfront and honest about being married from the start. It's ok to be in an open relationship but in this case it seems like his wife doesnt even know about this.
    If i were u I'd just tell him I'm not interested anymore and that's it

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  • lolasprat
    1 year ago

    Just send him this if you want, it will make him feel guilty. He will know you know the truth about him but he may not have the guts to ask you anything.
    "My love, my best friend, my life. You are the best soul mate I could ever imagine. You are God's angel on earth. 2 years of friendship with you making magical memories thinking of our three beautiful children of the future. I'm blessed."

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