Man that likes to wear women's clothing?

ok so i am a man and I am straight as a line but i luv to were womens clothes and bras and panties and tights and stuff. it makes me feel sexy. I pretends i have boobies and i walk around my house being sexy. when I go out to the club ppl stare at me becuz i usually wear a bra with a skirt and ppl thinks i am gay? i really am not gay i like girl not men but for som reason i luv to wear womens clothing. is this normal?

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  • ccjigsaw

    I think it's normal, I like wearing womens clothes too. Then again, I'm a woman. But hey! Clothes are clothes, just because they were intended for women doesn't mean only women can wear them. :) Girls can totally wear mens clothes Ie. Baggy hoodies etc.. Why can't a guy get away with a bra? Power to yah

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    • nishacrossie

      hey.. its absolutely normal. you are right. clothes are clothes, i am a crossdresser. i love to wear women clothes. I do it whenever i get a little time. i love the soft touch of feminine fabric. i am in heaven whenever i am woman. i just love it. so please dont hesitate in wearing clothes. just enjoy the life. NOTHING WRONG IN IT. GO FOR IT!!

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      • rkay1952

        I am with you on your view. We all like sometimes to try new things. Men is as much curious about the women and vice versa. Also, men would like to be beautiful some time, dont we. best, RK

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    • seawind

      Well I’m 60 and married with a son and two daughters.my son and daughters don’t mind me wearing girly clothes. My daughter 26 goes out and we find Pajamas to match.
      If girls can wear guys then I can wear girls.
      I feel special sexy and i love the softest things. I love pink and teddy bears.
      It’s awesome.

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    • Clnj

      So I am a married man I am straight but when my wife isn’t home I like to put on her high heels panties bra and stuff the bra of course a wig and walk around the house today I put light pink lipstick on and when looking at my self I got turned on but is it weird that I dress up like this

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  • squirrelgirl

    Sounds hot! I love men who dress like women!

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    • Krystalinpanties

      Squirrel girl that is so great to find a woman that actually likes a man that dresses up like a girl, I have been doing it since I was 13 first with my mom's undergarments then as time when by I got married so I started using my wife's cothes after almost 10 years we divorced and it was not because of me xdressing she never knew,so a few years after that I started buying my own clothes panties and bras and wear them every day under my boy clothes and at night with my night gowns or baby dolls anything to make me feel confy and sexy

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    • johnspeedy

      Hi womens clothes are so lovely your lucky wish I was a women .I do have little breasts that are growing so I am wearing a bra and panties makes me feel so sexy would like some ideas of wear I can go from here

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      • Krystalinpanties

        How did you make your breast become bigger I would love for mine to grow

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    • 66caprice

      I wish there were more women like you!!

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    • sanwannadresslikewomen

      haii i have same feeling as like him but fear in public and several places is this a wierd feeling ??i wanna know can you reply me??

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      • Ianwants2cum

        On Saturday I going shopping with my mistress dressed in neon pink tights dark blue cut to show top of the leg ,with a thin white ladies lower cut top with lacy shoulders showing the dark blue bra underneath . We will shopping for tampax and condoms . I will be asking the assistant if the tampax are suitable for a virgin and are they sure because my mistress girl friend is a virgin and do they have extra small condoms , if they reply no or they are the smallest , my mistress will pass comment of we take them and we will just have to put rubber band around to base again . Which I will say but it hurts , so you will have to cum quicker then . You Big sissy come on home .

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  • Avant-Garde

    I cross-dress too:) we're all normal.
    There should be a cross-dressers club!

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    • geek_god_101

      I agree! Cross-dressing is awesome. It lets people see the characteristics people desire in the opposite gender and play a role they are not traditionally active in. ;)

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      • Redphoenix1178

        That's exactly how I feel and it's right on the money my ex didn't understand and my fiancé of almost four years does get it she wears my clothes so why can't I get away with it too I think it sounds pretty fair if you ask me. I love doing this sort of thing too

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    • Random8modnar

      Yeah there should as everyone is different and I think it is perfectly normal as it is there choose to do it so if anyone try's to take the mik out of these people they should just keep it to them self so they can feel cumfteble

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  • MissClaire

    It's more normal than you think. There are resturaunts/tea shops in Japan where the waiters are men dressed as women - it's a thing.... dont worry about it. Some women find it sexy.

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    • squirrelgirl

      *raises hand*

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      • MissClaire

        It's pretty great :)

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        • SissySarah

          Hi MissClaire!

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  • dalmationUntoyourSoul

    i wouldn't say it's normal but it's not really a problem either. i like to go out in drag too, and i like the ladies. you meet really interesting people when you wear a party dress, especially in smaller cities. besides, the right dress or skirt can make someone feel sexy or beautiful or smart or cute or innocent or nasty. it's just fun.

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  • Jessicalauren

    Yeah it's normal don't get why people have to be stereotypes for if your a guy who is wearing female clothing they think your gay but if your a woman who wears male clothing people are fine I don't get it

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  • SoSincere

    Do what you do. I am a straight man that is married with kids. I lose a bet the deal was for me to dress like a slutty nurse for a Halloween party. The person I bet had to buy the costume and I had to buy the shoes. I brought some 4 inch cheapees from Payless and tried them on. Now I know how women feel about their shoes/heels. Hey look so good on my feet. So i took it a step further and got some black tights....and OMD. That tights and heels combo was for real. The Halloween party is this weekend but I have been walking around with the tights/heel combo for almost two weeks. It is so sexy!

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  • CookieMC

    It's not weird, I have some women's clothes. I usually wear panties everywhere, maybe a bra. At home I wear women's shorts. My girlfriend knows about it and lets me wear her clothes. I also have a dress, if I do wear anything visible out in public I usually go to my Girlfriends house. She doesn't care that I do this she still loves me

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  • SissySarah

    I am a crossdresser too. There are many of us out there, and chances are your neighbor is one, or has dressed as a woman at one time or another. Its natural, as we all start out as females in the womb...even the biggest burliest of men were females at one time. We all have female traits in us because of this....some of us exude these traits, and some of us don't. I have been a CD since I was 13, and I love dressing up feminine. It feels good, looks good, and releases stress, and I am as straight as they get. Not at all one ounce interested in any guy...I love women, and looking like one. :) *hugs to all*

    Sarah

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  • davesumba

    it's not gay, you just love women so much and think they're so fucking sexy, that you want to be sexy like they are.

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  • Aurora2

    I love skirts & petticoats. I'm straight as a die but love seeing women in pretty girlie outfits, especially full, floaty frilly skirts or dresses, and have dabbled in cross-dressing. Femininity is a very special thing, sadly largely lost these days. For me personally a dabble in cross-dressing 'evens the score' in a way........women don't tend to look feminine these days so I make up for the imbalance myself occasionally. So yeah, normal for sure. I'd even go so far as to say that I'm jealous of women and feel that they're luckier than men in this regard. A woman could go out one day all dolled up in a pretty dress, high heels, etc and then the next day wear a trouser suit with a shirt and no-one would bat an eyelid. If a man did that he'd be called weird. Women cross-dress routinely and it's accepted. Sad but true. There you go.......different people have different views.

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    • Cosmic234

      I found my husband in my panties and hose if you are married how does your wife handle your views and it does turn me on but I don't know how or if I should approach this.

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      • CDmale4fem

        Cosmic, if you are looking for support or just understanding women to talk with and to help you figure or sort things out, <a href="http://www.crossdressers.com" rel="nofollow">www.crossdressers.com</a>. There are many spouses and gf's that will be more than happy to help in any way they can And most CD males are fighting with how to tell the spouse/gf. We have a deathly fear of rejection. Since you know about it I would say take him shopping and buy him a few things of his own. You may want to go a town or 2 a way to avoid someone you know. Seriously, most CD males would probably trade an arm for an understanding supportive woman to help, and to give us that little "it will be alright" pep talk. If he's like many others - wearing things to bed, or under his male attire. Remember most of us deal with the fear of being caught and the embarrassment that would cause, so pretty much just be positive, and set boundaries if needed. I told my ex wife after we divorced, I struggled at that time for 23 yrs to try and understand myself. We CANNOT expect someone else to fully come to grips with it in 48 hours. Best of luck

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  • Rachelle_InHighHeels

    ALL VERY NORMAL as you can see by the responses...
    I myself am a long time married crossdresser with a very supportive, understanding, accepting, knowledgeable, and helpful wife, who has taught me all the traits to emulate women, from presentation, to walking, standing, sitting, mannerisms, make up, hair, nails, etc and I've a very extensive wardrobe, including 42 pair of HIGH HEELS (and I do mean HIGH), and this for me is a lifestyle, and not a hobby, nor a passing fancy / whim.
    And I see a few in here admit to also being a crossdresser, so at this time, I'd ask those who "SAY" they are, to come forward and dfrop me a line at: [email protected] and let's discuss all of this further..
    Rachelle

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  • ilovemybfj

    GO FOR IT!!! :)But only wear certain things in public. I.e panties jewelry whatever just not super fem. stuff unless you want to be called gay. which by the way there's nothing wrong with being gay. :) But definately at night do your thing lingerie, the whole thing :))

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  • Dad

    You're a transvestite, you don't need to be gay for that. But lets be clear about it.
    Sexual fetish in privacy is one thing but out in public for real means you're a transvestite.

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  • SaraMorgan

    Not sure what I am think more transgender wait have women's body but keep my bits in panties all ways like female fashion and when have go back to my mail clothes dredging them I do go out most time as sara

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  • exotiqa

    Wife: Honey, did you wear my betty boop thong again? I can't seem to find it!

    Husband: Sorry dear, I wore them the other day. You know how I'm in love with those special pair riding up my ass, but I'm still not gay.

    - Seems fruity babes, but whatever makes you happy go for it!!!!!

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  • 4getmenot

    I dont know how long ive injoyed wearing womens clothes but i dont think nothing is wrong with it. Women wear our clothes and nothing is said. My gf helps me find what im looking for bras panties and everything inbetween dresses skirts heels bras panties makeup. I will only wear panties even when i wear my pants. Dont let anyone bother you abot it if you in joy it like i do, turn around and just do what you want to do

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  • Avant-Garde

    I love effeminate men:3

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  • stinkyncute

    Seems to me you are a cross-dresser. This doesn't make you gay. Maybe wear the undies under men's clothes and you won't completely fuck up your social life.

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  • pao

    women cloths are nice and soft, silky.. sexy... But WE WOMEN.. want to see something different !!!

    we want "macho"

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  • graphic_nature

    I've met a few straight guys that feel the same way about wearing women's clothing but they keep it in the house.. otherwise you're just begging for judgement. And good luck picking up girls :/

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    • squirrelgirl

      I'm a girl and I would love to go out with a crossdresser.

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      • Thordox

        It is great to see open minded women like you

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      • expandhorizons

        I have to say it's wicked cool you are so open minded! I wish you were in your early 20's and were close haha

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      • SissySarah

        Squirrelgirl, love hearing this. Please contact me if you can, or check out my facebook page, and type in my name Sarah Leggs. I am single, and I would love to become friends and chat with you please. Hope to hear from you. :)

        Sarah

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        • Thordox

          Hey Sarah love the skirts in your facebook pictures :) you go girl

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    • dalmationUntoyourSoul

      take it to the streets. be proud. if someone is judging you they will one day be judged with the same severity that they have judged you. and when i wear a dress, i meet all sorts of women and dance and get lots of hugs and love. not sex. just love and hugs.

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    • Thordox

      Judgement has always been an issue, picking up a girl is no too bad as long as you are not being a creep, I actually get the atention of more girls when going to parties dresses as a girl than a guy

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  • XDresr

    If it's not normal, it should be. I have been wearing womens clothes for 12+ yrs now. It started with a small mini skirt, then panties and then my favorite, thigh highs. Now I have dresses, panties, bra's, skirts, tops, loads of lingerie, wigs, fake boobs and heels. I wear every chance I can. I love the look and feel of walking around the house like a beautiful sexy woman. I found that I can even take it a step further by shaving my legs, chest, and private area. The feel of anything touching fresh smooth legs is hard to put into words. I even spray perfume on me. I don't look like a woman even with makeup. I have a guys face. But my neck down I can really look like a woman. The hardest part is finding a woman that likes and encourages me to dress up anytime. It's has been seen when I'm dressed up to the 9's that all I want is sex. That isn't always the case. I just love dressing up in womens attire. Yes... I do like to feel like a woman, feel like a woman and be sexy like a woman.

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  • Bilover91

    I love the reaction of people. Love it even more when he doesn't care im a man dressed up and still takes me to his hotel and fucks me and cums in my mouth or ass

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  • Swisscandy

    I always like doing that since i was a kid, especially tight jeans with tight sweaters and shirts and black sneakers. Always black sneakers i like how they look with jeans, thing is the more i do it sometimes i wish i had a someone feeling me up. Especially my butt area like just have a hand just really go at it and not too say anything. I even sometime wear long wigs and makeup and shave, i almost look feminine. I fantasize about that sometimes.

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  • topcat1957

    It is outside of the norm so I would say it is not normal. But that isn't what most people mean by normal; they mean is it acceptable?
    So the answer to that depends on who you ask. Older people are more likely to view it as unacceptable and abnormal.
    I think younger people are much more accepting of guys wearing girl's clothing.
    Sometimes it is a fetish and a turn on for guys to wear ladies clothing.
    It probably won't upset most people, especially younger people. But older people who grew up with very strict delineations between male and female roles, who have been conditioned to see guys dressed in girl's clothing as wrong may express disapproval, even contempt.
    I like to avoid "scaring the horses" if I feel like pushing limits and not do it in public. An old girlfriend talked me into letting her put makeup on me once and it turned me on when I saw myself as a pretty girl. I could see doing some role play in the bedroom wearing girl's clothing for fun. I wouldn't like to do it in public however. Most people consider it outside the average normal behavior I think.

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  • cowboy652

    no it's not normal, if you were born with a penis, God created you as a man, "The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man,neither shall a man put on a womans garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the Lord thy God." ( Deuteronomy 22;5). I'm not judging anybody who does this, for I have this problem myself. I am a man but at times I feel comfortable dressing as a woman, until I look in the mirror, and I ask myself, why are you doing this, God created you to be a man. for those who think that you are a woman trapped in a mans body, it's a lie from satan, he want's to pull you away from God and drag you down into the depths of hell to spend eternity with him.

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    • seawind

      If you feel good it’s no harm. It’s just dressing.
      I’m a guy and I love my wife but I also love cute girls socks and pajamas and jackets and sneakers and pink things and teddy bears.
      The Lord will not punish me.

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      • Bilover91

        😍😍

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  • Thordox

    I am biologicaly a male, you can say that I am straight since I do not like men, but I am gender-fluid. I own more womem intended clothing and makeup, than anything else and have a girlfriend who accepts me for who I am.

    Enough said about me...

    In most cases women are more open minded about men dressing as women and there are more men who cross dress than you would imagine, but due to society norms not too many people accept it. Most people when in public will just look at it wrong, because they just like to follow the crowd and are afraid of being rejected or judged them selves.

    I do not cross dress in public, unless when at parties surounded by people who I know that will not judge. But when dresses all in male intended clothing, surrounded by people who have no clue to who I really am, I do not tollerate any type of judgement against someone who has the strength to cross dress in public.

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  • coolguy21

    i actually do that too sometimes. i wear panties before. i even got excited while in the first time buying it because the saleslady who assisted me told me that some men also bought panties because its more comfortable to wear. it's perfectly normal

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  • Redphoenix1178

    Yes it's normal and no your not bisexual if you do that.... that's called stereotypical labeling and I do cross dress myself but I am confident because I have friends and my fiancé and her mom who are supportive and I just bought a custom pair of heels problem is finding something to go with it

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  • Ben66

    Wish I was with a women how didn't mind it :(

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    • Thordox

      Bisexual women are most supported in being with a man who cross dress, due to that they can have the best of both worlds, but it is not easy to find a bisexual partner, I was lucky enough :)

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  • lizzytv

    @Squirrelgirl ive started as a tv i was hoping we could talk more and i think its normal it shouldnt matter what you wear your still you

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    • negative

      Hey squirrel girl i love wearing women's clothing too my favorite is tan support pantyhose but my future wife doesn't approve of it too much

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  • martinsherman

    Good blog! I really love how it is simple on my eyes and the data are well written. I am wondering how I could be notified whenever a new post has been made.
    But I really don't like to wear Women's Clothing. But I am just doing the business of Women's Clothing Online on my website enah.in

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  • Lucky0970

    word as gay is wrong, its depend how u feel and size if it smaller that suit u fit, im male and smaller size that i cant find men trousers which is too big so wear women clothes size that suit me prefect, bad words is unfair as men do have right to wear skirt, i do wear skirt that really cool. it doesnt matter which one men or women clothes to buy but it lots cheaper to buy skirts plus easy to wash also cool in hot weather so think about your own body....

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  • jussayin

    You're just a sweet transvestite from transexual transylvania. Lyrics to Sweet Transvestite from from Rocky Horror. I don't know very many/any women who are turned on by men dressing like them.

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  • DefinitelyNotNormal89

    Like Eddie Izzard? And daaaaaaaaaaaayum is he sexy!

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  • darcilove111

    ur bisexual

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  • jusssayin2

    youre a definite tranny....but if your into bras pushups work best....if you can rock some heels im not mad at you...

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