Men 30+ would you date a 30 year old woman?
My friend said no one wants me because I turned 30. She's 26 and said that at 30 men don't like 30+ because we're used up? Is this true?
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RoseIsabella
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Somenormie
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Tommythecaty
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RoseIsabella
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LloydAsher
I mean to be fair if a 30+ year old guy who's in the middle of his career with lots of money, do they want another 30 year old with a career too or do they want the 20 year old that would be more receptive to the role of house maker?
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Contrivance
A 20 year old girl more receptive to the role of a housemaker? Ha. Maybe if someone kidnapped her and held her hostage, brainwashed her. Then absolutely
Otherwise if someone wants a wife they have better chances with someone mature and older
Someone young who is inexperienced, hasnt matured, nor figured out what they want or the kind of partner they can spend their life with- is a massive gamble imo to try and tie down
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LloydAsher
I wasnt talking about you I was talking about a trend that's clear as day.
So you are saying there are ZERO women in their 20s that want to get into a relationship or married and have children with guy who has way more resources than a guy of her similar age?
Men dont tend to date up. Women do that. Women either get a guy that is the same economic level or higher. A guy in his 30s who's in his career has a house and a car with a decent amount of spending money is way higher on that hierarchy than a guy in his 20s.
Just because you arent in a trend doesnt mean it doesnt exist.
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Contrivance
And I wasnt talking about myself either but a trend as well.
I'd like you to focus on my word choice. It's often very specific: "Maybe" and "Better chances" "massive gamble." All of which never imply that there are "ZERO women." I almost never claim anything to be an absolute but I understand this can be an easy subtlety to miss. In my observations, I know one 19 year old church going girl who married a 30 something man. But she is the only one who fits your trend compared to the... oh goodness... 20... 40? other young girls I've known all my life who wouldnt go for a man in his 30s no matter what.
Perhaps* your trend is true specifically where you live. A lot* of trends are after all are very particular to a city or country.
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RoseIsabella
I dunno, about all that mess, but when I was 20 years old I was a college student, working part-time at a local radio station, and the last thing on my mind would have been to be a wife, and mother, and especially not with a dude who was ten years my senior. Ugh, what you're describing would have been my worst nightmare at 20.
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olderdude-xx
I suggest that your friend knows little about human sexuality.. Very little.
Most people date all their lives. Senior Centers are full of sexually active people, and nursing homes have a lot of sexually active patients too. The staff rarely talks about this.
I never considered age an issue once above the Age of Consent. When I was a teenager I would have dated any woman of any age that was willing to date... and met my criteria as a decent person. Same rules essentially apply now, except I'm a lot more selective based on life experience (and most teenagers and 20 somethings tend to lack adequate mental maturity for me since I was in my mid 30's). Also, my wife would have to approve now that we are married (she has that right).
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SwickDinging
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Mini69
Your friend sounds like a fucking idiot. Very soon she will be in her 30’s, does she think her life will no longer be worth anything to anyone and no one will ever want to do anything sexual with her ever again?
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notsaying4life
I don’t think you’ll get the right answers you’re asking two different questions one in the title and the question itself
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DADNSCAL
No way. Some women are stunning in their 30’s and even 40’s. Your friend doesn’t know what she’s talking.
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pastafather
Its not thirTY its thirTEEN. by then ur always readin about opinions and been with every1 at the dollar general
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bigbudchonga
Womens tart really going downhill about 38; older men are still happy with a woman who's lost her youthful looks.
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anabnormal_guy
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LloydAsher
It helps the argument when it comes to tinder dates males peak at 41 while women peak at 22. It shows because all men of any age group tend to seek the early 20s.
A guy in his 40s with his career money will instantly outmatch a guy in his 20s that only maybe has their looks going for them.
Just natural selection I guess.
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Indigo1
I'd say that generally speaking guys of all ages TEND to be MOST attracted to females in there 20's above all. That being said OF COURSE 30 is not old or "used" up and plenty of guys would gladly date woman in her 30's and far beyond.
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anabnormal_guy