Men older won't date me because i look

It means that they aren't really into you. People have their own choices to who they choose to date and that's OK.

I get that. People always mistake me for being a high school student and I am in my mid 20s. I would prefer to date older men myself due to valuing commitment more than most immature 20-somethings but I think any decent older man would be cautious about asking me out.
You can make yourself appear more your age with styling and makeup though. Usually subtle makeup is best because it's pretty youthful to wear heavy makeup randomly.
Talking in a slightly deeper voice and keeping good posture helps too.

Men have learned to be very cautious. It's statutory rape regardless of how much fake ID and documents an underage lady has.

However, I would date you if you convinced me that your documents were real and that you were over 16 - 18 depending on the State age of consent; and if our chemistry and values were right (I'm not into hookups or flings just for sex - I am into long term friendships which can include sex with the right Lady).

Expect me to ask a fair amount of questions about your past as part of my validation of your age and documents.

Id say thats a good thing if people think youre a minor at 33. I wouldnt mind fucking a girl thats like 18 but I get the whole not wanting to date part. 18yo girls can look like 14. And if you're going around everywhere with her and you're 30+ ppl gonna think youre a ped0 which is the worst thing you can be in America.

I would say it's unfortunately normal. There's a guy at my job that I like who likes me back. As finally apart talking but ultimately ge decided against us seeing each other due to him being a supervisor and me not. As its against company policy despite us working separate shifts and departments.
It's shitty but it is wgat it is. I'd try not to take it 2 personally if i was you

Hey I’m in my late 30s and still look 20 something, maybe we should get together 😂 I’ve actually had this happen to me before as well. When I was 29, I was dating this 34 year old woman. Well, her age was older but her maturity level wasn’t at all what I expected. She looked older than her actual age because she drank like a fish and smoked way too much (I was set up lol) Anyway, I would always refrain from taking pictures with her because it seriously looked like a mother and son, even though we were 4 1/2 - 5 years apart. Some friends of mine made comments about how she looks old, and whenever I would go out to public places with her, people would look at us. I even had a waitress tell me I could do better when my gf at the time was in the bathroom 😂 Needless to say, we split up. The relationship only lasted a few months and we honestly didn’t break up because of the age thing, simply because I never brought it up to her. Though I had other peoples opinions running through my mind, the choice to break up with her was solely mine, and not due to looking old, but actually acting like a child and being older than me. I was hoping the age gap would = a level of maturity on her end. No such luck lol. We also broke up because she had many disgusting habits I was not into, no motivation and no drive to look for a job or move out of her parents house at 35 years old. That was the end of her. I still see her on social media sometimes. It has been about 8 years and nothing has changed on her life, except that she looks even older lol

Are you male or female ?