Mom wants to "torture" son
My brother has done something really serious and concerning for his age, the dynamics of what happened are confusing and his version in unlikely to be true (for objective factors). My mother's response is to humiliate him: she has been screaming at him for at least 40 minutes trying to get the truth out of him. She said he's selfish, unappreciative we (me and my brother) ruined her life. She then decided that she will spend this Christmas making him study as long and possible (one problem we have is that he should learn to study on his own at this point, but he still does it with my mother, and I'm actively trying to get him to be more independent), she said that she "must martyr him", because she's "tired of always being the martyr", so she has told him she will write what he has done to his class and to his professor, that is his friends call to play with him on the computer she will tell them what he has done.
I'm sorry this more of a vent.