More to offer a woman

I don’t think you have an accurate understanding of feminism. It’s not so black and white, and that’s the point. Neither of you have to conform to any role, you can manage and decide for yourselves how you would like your relationship to be. It’s the being able to choose that is feminist, not the choice itself.

It depends on the individual woman’s priorities, traditional gender roles work for some couples whilst others find them stifling. It’s all about finding someone who’s values align with your own.

In the Balkans most men and women conform to their gender roles. Not because of oppression, before any blue-haired wackos downvote me, but because women want to be feminine, pampered and protected by their men and men want to be strong, manly and provide for their women.

Now, northern Europe has very independent women that frown upon traditional gender roles and the rest of Europe - mixed bag.

I was raised to be a gentleman, pay the bill, help women, be decisive, fix stuff and be a traditional/ old school man. I can't be with a feminist, or super independent/ empowered woman who constantly has a dick measuring contest with me.
I need a feminine woman in my life who is ok with me being the man and her being the woman. I'd never hold back my wife from pursuing a career, or learning something new, but I want her to know I can provide for the both of us and she is not pressured to do any of those things. I'll take care of the bill, I'll carry the heavier groceries, I'll do DIY stuff, etc. It's not toxic masculinity, it's a gesture of love, taking the weight off of her. But that's me.

What is important is that you find someone who fits in your life right and you fit in theirs.

U want something to offer to women give her her independance

As a men's right's activist, I absolutely prefer the "male feminist" over the "conservative" guy.

I have ZERO tolerance for sexism against men.

I think most of the time given the choice between two men of the same "quality" they'd usually take the guy who will pay for them and give them options. I assume most conservatives are atleast open to the idea of her working if she wants. I think most feminist men would consider her not working a deal breaker. In dating the women really have all the power and you basically have to sell yourself to her why you're the one she should choose.

Im generalizing here but I also think more times than not they'll also pick the masculine man over the more feminine emotional guy.

I am a proud male feminist. We are a very accepting people. I don't get many women but I get to be in their presence and sometimes they lit me sniff their hair which is nice. But the feminist community is great. We have more to offer women. Not that it's a competition because women are free to choose whoever they want :)

Edit: wow Im really being shamed for this. What a problematic enviroment.