Most of my dates have spending problems

People with horses are a special kind of insane. It would be cheaper, and less dangerous, to be a crackhead
-someone with horses

The common theme among all these women is dating you. While some of their behaviors may be unhealthy, I think you have to ask yourself what keeps attracting you to the same type of women.

I'm a woman, but this shit almost sounds like some of the chicks I went on dates with. None of them knew how to save money, they were always broke, and their mom and dad always came to their rescue(there were also quite a few liars).XD

But anyway, you seem like you're a good egg since you said you're saving money and you're independent. Keep your head up. You'll eventually find your equal. People might tell you you have no right to be picky, but in your case you absolutely do. Do NOT settle for some inexperienced broke chick that doesn't understand finances. You're only going to screw yourself over in the long run if you get with a chick like this.

Where are you meeting these women? Dating site? Mall?

My problem is books and a growing nintendo collection. My friends is travel and pets. It's certainly difficult to find someone who knows how to save. I work for a good company that for the area pays pretty well. Far 2 many of my coworkers are check to check. Some cause of schooling wich is fair but others not so much..

My advice don't let any potential partner know of your finances and the like. Your a man getting older with a good head on your shoulder. Presuming you are reasonably attractive you'll have no trouble getting women in time so it'll be down to choosing the right one.

Men and women value different things in each other in most terms so yea you can probably be picky

You must have expendable income yourself to have even found out so much about these girls.

My advice is to go on cheap dates like walking, and coffee, or appetizers, to find something worthy before you could even know their financial situation.

Better selection than the women I've had to date. With my shitty dating selection, travel usually meant finding another place to stay when they got evicted for not paying rent at whatever squat they were living in. Instead of horses they typically had dogs that were so unhealthy they should have been euthanized years ago. And finances? We are talking welfare food stamps and WIC. For their fashion sense they often looked like they got their clothes out of a thrift store dumpster.

How was your mother about debt?

Girl 9: Stays in the one place for extended periods of time.

Although it's important to save, don't make it live you an unfulfilling life. Try finding a hobby that only requires little money to get started (like playing an instrument or doing a sport). I haven't travelled in 3 years but my hobbies are much more fun anyway.

Sounds like you have a type. Maybe adjust your strategy a bit. Not sure how as I've never used a dating site, but there has to be a way you can filter out those who are irresponsible with money.

But it also speaks to a bigger problem in society. Debt is far to common and banks prey on those who live outside their means. But living within your means is becoming more and more difficult. And many people choose travel as a form of mental health therapy.

Maybe you should look for friends in general, those who share common interests and hope love grows out od that. Otherwise this serial dating will only find you people who want to date, not people who want to build a life with someone.