Most of my week is occupied but..
Most of my week is occupied and the only days I get time for myself is from Fridays to Sundays, yet my mother has the audacity to say it's fine if I can't go to her house to "babysit" my 16 year old sister and then text's me that she's not in a good mood to talk to me at the moment.
There's been moments where she'll ask me to do something but when I say I can't because I'm busy or tired, she'll complain about it until I feel guilty. Either that or the rest of the day she's in a shitty mood. She's had the habit of using people to get what she wants, and when I am able to do something for her it's suddenly:
"Aw you are such a good girl" "you are a darling" like I'm a fucking child. It's cringe and it pisses me off because she's done it for years now. She'll even do it when I'm doing the bare minimum.
I try to be nice about and not let it get to me but I honestly have had enough. Even my siblings know it.
Note: we are maōri/Pacific islander from Nz .