Mostly only turned on by my fetishes, nothing really relating to sex

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I'm trans female, depressed, hasn't had any social interaction outside my family for the past 2 years, pretty sure straight female.
Maybe I just don't understand how attraction works?

But that Mon Calamari do be lookin kinda hot doe

(Btw, if you're transphobic or a furry hater I WILL delete your comment. So you're just wasting your time.)

Probably because you can't have your ideal sex with the current body you have (wrong gender) 2
Maybe You're not as attracted to males as you think 0
That one sexuality that means not physically attracted to people based on their sex and gender 0
Your Depression is dousing your sexual attraction 2
I bet You'd rather fuck an alien 3
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  • LloydAsher
    3 years ago

    You do you, just dont expect your partners to share in the fetish though.

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  • EnglishLad
    3 years ago

    Not normal in the slightest. Didn't even have to think about that.

    As with regards to fixing your problem, I don't even know where to start. Your own gender dysphoria has confused you to the point where you don't even know who you are...

    You are a walking advert for why gender dysphoria should be treated as a mental illness, with cognitive behavioural therapy.

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    • MaxineFinnFoxen
      3 years ago

      Lol your clearly mistaken, I haven't transitioned yet. I can't enjoy anything but fetishes because I don't have the body to do anything but that.

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      • FromTheSouthWeirdMan
        3 years ago

        Try cross dressing for a while first. This dude i grew up with did the transgender thing and now hes gone back but he took abunch of female hormones and now has tits. You gotta be sure thats what u wanna do before you start growing tits.

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        • MaxineFinnFoxen
          3 years ago

          I'm not stupid, I know people have to be sure. I worry about it a lot, even though there's technically nothing that hints that I'm wrong. I worry about it sometimes, but then I remember that I don't know how the people who detransition felt about it. They might have thought their obsession with women meant they are one, or that they didn't believe they were gay, etc.
          That's why I wanna talk to a detransitioned transfemale. Is there a way I could talk to him?

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          • Mammal-lover
            3 years ago

            If you wana talk to a bunch of trans haters quite a few are detransitioned check out

            https://www.reddit.com/r/GCdebatesQT?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

            Otherwise man it's a complicated road. You should seriously speak to a sex therapist though as only going for your fetishes is very unhealthy.

            Transitioning is difficult. Check out glamourboutigue.com if the link doesnt work I misspelled it. Simple google search will find it. The staff is incredible and very helpful. There clothing items is all about crossdressers not transgenders. Yes theres a diffrence.

            Depending on your age will affect your difficultly. If .iddleaged I cabt provide advice. I'm not qualified. If 20-30s buy a corset if you want a feminine body. A real steel boned one. Yes they suck to wear are kinda cute though but really gives you a feminine figure and if you stick to it the figure will last through a process of muscle memory. It's crazy. However it depends on your build. I'm a small little little thing so it works great, if your like a big buff person that's more difficult.

            Your own hair is always better than wigs. Dont shop for sexy clothes. You'll just through them all out later. Shop for everyday stuff clothing. Learn what looks good one you stuff like that. That's when you can get sexy clothes cause you know what will actually look good your sizes n junk. It's more important than you think. If you have bug feet get bootcut pants.

            Check out maurice's for pants and shoes. Little pricy but worth every cent. The pants grip me and show my assets while hiding my lesser desirables. The shoes they have many sizes in both cute and practical. They even carry for us with big feet.

            Stay away from the LGBT. They arnt respected and can lead you down a dark path. Just be yourself. Relax. You'll encounter plenty of haters and just as many who really dont give a fuck. And for the love of god if someone turns you down cause your trans and it will happen just keep moving. Donf get caught up in it

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            • MaxineFinnFoxen
              3 years ago

              Woah I NEVER said trans was my fetish, this post isn't suppose to be about trans in the first place

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          • FromTheSouthWeirdMan
            3 years ago

            https://m.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100023478582160&ref=content_filter

            Thats his profile. He/she is kind of a dick and will probably be like who gave you my shit. Just tell him the truth its weirdguyfromthesouth on IIN. Hahaha

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  • Mammal-lover
    3 years ago

    Try living life like a normal person you might actually meet someone

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    • MaxineFinnFoxen
      3 years ago

      Why would I try to "be normal" when that's not me? I dnt want to date someone who is attracted to my fake "normal" behavior

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      • Mammal-lover
        3 years ago

        I meant go outside meet people

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        • MaxineFinnFoxen
          3 years ago

          Its easier said than done

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  • Ditnyte
    3 years ago

    I think you just need to interact with more people and maybe have sex eventually

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  • Clunk42
    3 years ago

    That's technically part of the definition of "fetish", but I only learned that recently.

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  • litelander8
    3 years ago

    This is all over the place. Where does seafood even come into play?

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    • Clunk42
      3 years ago

      https://starwars.fandom.com/wiki/Mon_Calamari

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    • LloydAsher
      3 years ago

      It's a star wars race of fish people.

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