My best friend's sister

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I think I'm in love with my best friend's sister but I'm not sure if she's playing games. She says she's straight some days and doesn't like girls. But on more than a few occasions she has flirted with me. Then says she was playing. Is she bipolar? Recently, we kissed. She lets me sleep in her bed when me and my friend have sleepovers and a few times she has even cuddled with me. She kissed me last night but today she says she's "not gay like me" so I'm trying to figure out if she's confused or scared. I want a relationship with her. She's funny, cute and sweet. Is it normal how she leads me on?

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  • MyDadCalledMeAFreak
    7 years ago

    She sounds confused. Sometimes it's just that she needs an outlet for her emotions. Somebody to flirt with and be sweet to is enough but that's all there is to it. Accepting your true self is hard and coming out of the closet is harder. I wish you well.

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  • AbnormallyAwesome
    7 years ago

    I can't tell you if she's gay. She could be, but she might aswell just look for some sort of affection to feel better about herself. Either way it's not fair of her to play with your emotions like that.

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  • JustAegis
    7 years ago

    She sounds pretty confused, but i think, especially if she's young, that she's just experimenting. She's probably feeling a lot of different things and cannot read them. You should just be nice to her, stay by her side and be there when she needs you. And i'll be really sorry if she doesn't want anything serious with you because your attraction to her seems so cute and genuine. Sadly, you cannot force anyone to do anything they don't feel like doing. Just remember that.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      She's 24 and im 23. She's my friends older sister and my friend is 22. We all sometimes sleep over and drink and watch shows together. Her sister told me a secret that her mom caught her talking to a girl on her texts and she actually got mad. Shit. I openly told my mom I liked women and at first she thought I was joking. Then just said that it was ok and I was still a great person either way. I almost kind of wished her mom was ok with it, because who knows? Maybe Id stand a better chance of being with such an incredible woman.

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      • JustAegis
        7 years ago

        Oh, damn it. Homophobic people are the worst. I hope for you two that your best friend's mother is okay with it, and if she's not, i really hope this does not prevent your relationship.

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  • russellnb
    7 years ago

    Maybe she is not sure about herself, have patients and let her find out on her own. Take what she offers but don't push.

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  • BEND_OVERR
    7 years ago

    When you sleep together , are you both naked ?
    Do either of you feel each other's tits and suck each other's tits and finger each other's bald cunt and asshole when in bed or sitting on the couch ?
    Ask her if you can play with each other and if you can sit on each other's face.
    Have you ever eaten each other's twat out ?
    Do you both have sex toys to pleasure yourselfs and each other ?
    Do you take showers together and play with each other in the shower ?
    Try all of those things and you both will probably like doing them.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Fyi. We did none of those things because she's not just some sex toy. She's a goddess worth more than that.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Go away before I report you, perv.

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  • shinzen
    7 years ago

    I am straight and my best friend is lesbian. I hug her, kiss her in the cheeks (I don't remember but I guess I did like I always do to all my friends), and let her in my room and stay HOWEVER, it was only a sisterly love and nothing more. Don't assume sonthing cause you might get hurt and disappointed. If kissing is in her nature then it may not be that significant for her. If you like her tell her so you won't be tired thinking.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Look at it through other peoples shoes. Her sister is my actual best friend that Ive known longer. She never kissed me in the mouth. The older sister did. And if you normally kiss your lesbian friend in the mouth, youre just as bad as the older sister. Im attracted to women so why would a woman with a homophobic mom and dad kiss me right in the mouth knowing that? And I dont mean a peck. We made out.

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