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is that bad? i knew my bf was lying about something so when he was gone i went on his computer and i admitted to it. but he’s now mad at me bc i found out more information that he’s continuing to lie about
While I wouldn't typically condone actions as such, I think given the circumstances, this was an exception that had to be made. After finding out that he lied to you, you can't help but to want to find out more. He deserves it anyway, he's the one who started it. You wouldn't have checked his phone if it weren't for *his* lies.
he should not lie to you or cheat on you, yet to invade his personal property and pry into his private business without be asked is wrong.
Leave him! There's no reason to stay with someone who is a liar, and a cheater. People generally don't change unless they want to change, and liars don't change, because they can just lie about it some more instead. If there's one thing I know it's that you can trust a thief to steal if you catch my drift. Just dump him, there's no need for an explanation; dishonest people don't deserve explanations.
He's cheated on you. That's the headline here, not that you looked at his phone to get more info.
Just dump him and move on. No good will come of this now. You deserve to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't lie to you.
A lie is not a lie unless someone ruined it with the truth. Why did you check your man's computer? Men cheating is not as bad as a women cheating. Just cut him some slack.