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I recently found out he has been fucking other men behind my back, and naturally I was upset at him (I'm a man too by the way). He then tells me why I was so upset about it, because sex has nothing to do with love, and since I was busy with work, he needed to have sex with someone. I am really wondering... Is this excuse normally used at all?
Dude drop his ass!! Cause he's going to keep doing it and blaming you for his action.find someone who will love you ? all of you just saying!!!
No. Break up with him, if he had an issue with your relationship he should've communicated it to you. He's trash and nothing to have.
Your boyfriend sounds like a piece of selfish ass shit with such an awful excuse, and cliché amongst douchebags everywhere, excuse. If I were you I would dump him.
I do, however want to ask you some questions. Who is the main breadwinner in the household? Does your partner cook, or clean, and or have any hobbies?
We usually do equal the amount of cleaning and cooking. And he does have a few hobbies.
I think you should tell him that his so called reasons for cheating are just bullshit excuses. No one ever died from not getting laid! It's very selfish of him to be out there trying to get laid while you're working your ass off to support the both of you! A healthy committed relationship is about sharing a life together, and if he's bored, or lonely he could get a hobby, take a class, and or increase his housework duties. In my less than humble opinion I think you should have a very serious talk with your partner about ya'll's relationship, and you need to tell him that his cheating is unacceptable!
What do you think you want to do? Do you think that he might be an addict?
Nah that's a pathetic excuse. What he claims is true. Sex and love two different things. But as humans we tend to have sex with lots of emotional attachment so, he's totally shit.
Here's a bad advise. Do the same. Have orgy saying the same excuse to him before dump his ass.
He should have come to you about opening your relationship instead of just straight up cheating
If someone tried asking me about opening up a relationship I was in, I'd immediately start planning my escape plan. The idea of an open relationship makes me sick. I'd honestly rather be alone as far as ever having another partner again as long as I live than waste my time with a two-timer.