My boyfriend doesnt want me going on a skate trip?

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so my boyfriend owns a skateboard company, mind you hes 24 and people on the team range from 19-24. They make a video every 2 or so years of clips of them skating and they go on trips sometimes to get footage from other parts of california. He was talking to one of his "employees" as he likes to call it but they are actually just all friends. thats another big thing, he hates when i dont take his job seriously, if i call it fun or when they go on trips i say it looks fun because its strictly "work" yet all of his friends just get fucked up at night.
Anyways, I asked if i could go, to which he replied maybe. When we first started dating he would always say how hes excited to take me on skate trips and how i could always go, now its a maybe because he doesn't know if his friends would like it because some of them werent able to bring their girlfriends in the past. he says he would want me to go, but would have to check with his friends first. is this normal or okay? its just annoying, and hes the type of guy that would get upset if i didnt invite him on a trip. I get that it would be for filming skating all day, but i told him i wouldnt mind and id love to go. i dont want to sound needy and i told him i understand no matter what but its just annoying bc he once said that id always be able to come and now its a maybe...

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Based on 4 votes (2 yes)
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  • Somenormie
    3 years ago

    Maybe you should to it out with him and maybe talk about this in way it can be easily settled.

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  • Chap
    3 years ago

    I voted no as in its not normal for him to act that way.

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  • RoseIsabella
    3 years ago

    Find something else to do during that time.

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  • einexile
    3 years ago

    If he used a no-girlfriends rule in the past to keep somebody off the trip, he kind of has to enforce it with you. Bear in mind it may not have been that he or anybody didn't like the girlfriend, but that her boyfriend likes to fool around on trips or he just needed an excuse to keep her off. Point being it may have nothing to do with you.

    How you should put it to him: I won't press you on this trip, but please nuke the no-girlfriends rule and let everyone else invite who they like. Once the new rule has been exercised and everyone is comfortable with it, I'd like to join the next trip.

    If he has a problem with this, his excuse is bullshit and he's the one who wants the rule.

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  • a-curious-bunny
    3 years ago

    Sounds annoying as hell

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