My boyfriend is addicted to porn please help!!!

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Hi, I have been in a relationship for 2 years and came to find out my boyfriend watches porn, Many times I have spoken to him about it but nothing seems to change. there has been several times that I have cought him in the act and all i could do was cry! Ive cried to him and told him how that makes me really feel, He did cheat on me a year ago, and since then our relationship has changed and he has gotten worst in how much he watches porn and jerks off to it! there has been times he have sex lets say at 6am and at 7am he is already watching porn and that makes me feel like what I did wasnt enough or I did not satisfy him in anything, He watches porn every single day and does his business as well. Sometimes we can be 3-4 days without having sex because he has already taken care of him self with porn. and I am just tired of this! I cant talk to him anymore because it would be a waste of time, Some one please get back to me and tell me what I can do to help in this situation besides he agreed to counseling but never made the step.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    OMG I always masturbate, it's lush and addictive innit?! I'm actually doin it now lol! :)

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    • PREGNANCYISHOT
      11 years ago

      me too, reading all of this turns me on, so wet!!!! God help me.... towel rubbing me feeling so nice <BR><BR>I am pre-longing it so much it is making me feel like crap like I am not having a baby :-(, I do that so much these days. Cannot say why I love to make it last so long that the feeling turns to crap and not like nice masturbating anymore.

      It an itch that want go away lol

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    ok ummm to the a$$hole up here↑not all of us watch porn.
    to you, don't stand the same sht because he sounds like he's happy with or without you. he's addicted to something which, is not bad to have an addiction but, if you're hurting someone you care about you're gonna stop one way of another. I know that didnt help haha

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  • PREGNANCYISHOT
    11 years ago

    It has gotten to the point where I had to buy a 9 months practise pregnant belly suite which I had to give up in March 2013, since my one and only bf found it and took to a charity shop. However I never really said that I had brought it or why. I feel empty without it.

    I loved to still act very very fat and pregnant too wearing tight clothes (sometimes I wear an old swimming suite stuffed to the max) and a very tight belt. It does not feel the same anymore, and does not feel like I am carrying a baby.

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  • gloomydust
    12 years ago

    He really doesnt see how much it bothers you. I had something similar happen. The best thing to do is leave him. Tell him why , tell him that you were being serious and you can't be with someone who's not making you happy. It works. He'll take you more seriously and he wi actually try to change that habit or he wont do anything at all and you move on and find someone who's willing to show how much they care about you

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  • PREGNANCYISHOT
    12 years ago

    am a lady and cannot stop watching pregnancy hardcore porn and having a good masturbate to it all.
    Its gotten to the point where I had to buy (and now wear) a 9 months practise pregnant belly suite to do the job it fells so much better than stuffing myself and the best thing I brought. I love wearing it while watching pregnancy hardcore porn or stuff re pregnancy on TV or YouTube then masturbate rubbing a bath towel in-between my fanny and crossing my legs, when no one is around. Has anyone else brought one of these practise pregnant belly suite? I am thinking of wearing my suite one day around my village to see if any looks at me and to see how much turned on I get.

    I too cannot see women, friends, family members or teachers pregnant in real life without being wet below and sexily aroused.I believe I would have to see something about pregnancy to get me in the mood before sex God I am so turned on now I need to go masturbate good and hard, as I am very wet too. View my story to read more!

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    Guys like your bf will never change. It will only get worse. Also if he cheated why are you still with the jerk? seriously move on before you waste too much of your life with him. Because it won't last, even if you are with him for a few more years, it will eventually end.

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  • BULLHORN9
    13 years ago

    Your boyfriend clearly has a major psychological issue

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  • lol_bamf
    13 years ago

    Dump him. He obviously doesn't love you enough to understand your feelings on this issue. Or even care.

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  • PBJ
    13 years ago

    So if this didn't interfere with your sex life would you still be mad?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Well every guy is gonna watch porn but if it starts to interfere with their sex life with their gf he's tryin yo draw back from u n distance himself cuz he won't stop how much he does it n he cheated on u that should if been a hint

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    • sencilla84
      13 years ago

      so what you think I should do? Why you think he would want to draw back from me?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Every guy watches porn.....u sound like a bitch

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