My boyfriend's mother..

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I really don't know what to do. My boyfriend's mother is a complete fake. My poor boyfriend does nothing but bend over backwards for her and I have to listen to her talking trash about him everytime he steps away, but to his face is a complete little angel. I'm sick of her taking advantage of him and don't know if I should tell him or not. I'm thinking about recording it because I would probably look like a complete lier. On the other hand, it would break his heart to know the truth. I don't know what's right to do in this situation.

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    i record her two faced lying ass and let him know what he is up against. its not revenge its just leveling the playing field . If mom is doing that to your boyfriend she is doing it to every human she encounters including to you.

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  • nikkiclaire
    6 years ago

    Don't say anything to your boyfriend. As you said it will upset him.

    Tell the mother you don't wanna hear it and if she continues with crap then you'll make sure she rarely sees him.

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  • jaystrong
    6 years ago

    Record her shitty ass talking smack about him. Don't play it for him yet. Have a little talk with her and if she continues and can't understand where you're coming from at least you have some back up if need be. Only time will tell.

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    Never get between a momma bear and her cub. You’ll always lose.

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  • Dustyair
    6 years ago

    lol

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  • CDmale4fem
    6 years ago

    Have you referencing him to her? Tell her if she can't say and see the good in him then she should just S.T.F.U. Tell her you know better, you don't want to hear it. If she can't hold it then yea I would record and leave it for him with the option to hear it ornot. But either way I would think he would want to know about his backstabbing 2 faced mother. You didn't mention ages.

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  • JonathanOo
    6 years ago

    Tell him or talk to her. Letting it continue is Bad

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  • Ellenna
    6 years ago

    So what's your current response to this crap? Just don't listen to it: walk away; leave the room,;ask her why she's telling you this and not directing it to him; tell her you don't want to hear it. You don't "have to listen" to it: how much time do you need to spend with her anyway?

    There's obviously something weird going on here on her side and personally I wouldn't be telling him about it. I did that once when a friend's mother seriously badmouthed my friend, and I ended up with both of them angry with me and I was seen as a trouble maker.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      It depends on how crazy she gets it how awful the things are that she says. Sometimes I tell her she's being completely ridiculous or other times just get up and walk away.

      Sorry to hear about your friend and their mom, that's how I'm worried it would end up which is why I really need to record it if I do.

      We usually will go every year and stay the summer because she moved away about 10 years ago now. I'm not going anymore though and I told him it's because I wanted to pursue certain things with work when really it's her.

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  • Hotdogsaregross
    6 years ago

    It depends on the situation.
    I do think you should probably tell him though. Record any bad things she says before you tell him because he probably will not believe you and get mad at you without proof.
    I also think you should stop being around her if she constantly talks bad about him. It's not good for you or him.

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