My boyfriend takes photos of me when i'm not looking

86% Normal
18 Comments

I don't think it's weird or anything because he's a photography major, but I though it would be worth asking anyways. Sometimes I'm really not expecting it though and it freaks me out. He knows I'm not keen on having photos taken but I have said it's fine. He's really nice and he's not being creepy. It just confuses me a little, I guess. Any advice? I can't really ask him to stop because I'd feel bad about it.

Voting Results
86% Normal
Based on 14 votes (12 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 18 )
  • S0UNDS_WEIRD
    2 years ago | pl

    I'd say this is a bit endearing actually. Photographers tend to take pictures of what they find amazing. Sounds like he loves every little thing you do.

    If you ask him to stop he should though.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    8
    8
      -
    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      That's honestly really nice. I asked him why recently and he pretty much just said the same thing: "I just like taking pictures of beautiful and fascinating things, and I think you're a beautiful and fascinating guy." So thank you for that little bit of reassurance.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      2
      2
        -
      • S0UNDS_WEIRD
        2 years ago

        You're quite welcome!

        Comment Hidden ( show )
        0
        0
    • litelander8
      2 years ago

      This. Except, if he’s an aspiring artist, he should be able to create with no limits from a significant other.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      1
      1
        -
      • Anonymous Post Author
        2 years ago

        My thoughts exactly.

        Comment Hidden ( show )
        0
        0
  • LloydAsher
    2 years ago

    My girlfriend does that to me. It's pretty cute.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    3
    3
  • RoseIsabella
    2 years ago

    A lot of spontaneous pictures turn out better than staged ones.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    2
    2
      -
    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      I agree, he takes a lot of slice of life photos and they're some of the most beautiful pictures I've ever seen.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      1
      1
  • hauntedbysandwiches
    2 years ago

    He definitely finds you highly attractive

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
      -
    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      I don't know why, but so it seems.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      1
      1
  • 1WeirdGuy
    2 years ago

    Doesnt sound that bad just tell him to delete the ones you dont like cause it will ens up on social media

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
      -
    • litelander8
      2 years ago

      No. An actual photographer doesn’t post everything. And would you tell a painter to throw something out that you didn’t like?

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
        -
      • 1WeirdGuy
        2 years ago

        Idk just saying from experience. My wife will post goofy pictures of me on her facebook.

        Comment Hidden ( show )
        0
        0
          -
        • Anonymous Post Author
          2 years ago

          Hello. He's explicitly said he won't post on social media. However, I have said it's okay to share this photo because it doesn't make me look too wacky and he's proud of the editing. I'm comfortable with it now by the way, haha. (The quality kinda blows because ImgBB makes the images bigger. Just copy and paste the link.)

          https://ibb.co/Gs0Tgqn

          Comment Hidden ( show )
          0
          0
            -
          • 1WeirdGuy
            2 years ago

            I tell my wife not to. Sometimes when shes taking a picture ill go to make the biggest retard face you've ever seen just to be stupid. Then a month later ill look at her facebook and see the picture has been there for a whole month.

            Comment Hidden ( show )
            0
            0
              -
            • Anonymous Post Author
              2 years ago

              Ah...I guess there's not a lot you can do about that.

              Comment Hidden ( show )
              0
              0
          • litelander8
            2 years ago

            Wow... you have a perfect face.

            Comment Hidden ( show )
            0
            0
              -
            • Anonymous Post Author
              2 years ago

              Oh gosh...absolutely not, haha.

              Comment Hidden ( show )
              0
              0