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I overheard my boyfriend talking to one of his friends and he was saying how he had an awesome time taking some girl "Jen" to Poundtown last night. He told me he was going to play pool with his friends!
I'm sort of upset because he never takes me anywhere and apparently he lied about where he was going last night. Should I say something?
| Say something! | 96 | |
| Ignore it. | 7 | |
| Ask him to take you to Poundtown. | 47 |
Dump this loser right now, do not pass go and do not collect $200.00.
What a fucking idiot you are if you don't! Everybody is laughing at you behind your back! I'd drop him like a hot potato without even an explanation, just shove him out the door. Hasta the bye bye, sayonarah dude, gone bears.
I couldn't stand everybody knowing that my guy did this to me and I let him get away with it. EVERYBODY is laughing at you behind your back. Did you hear me? EVERYBODY is laughing at you behind your back.
Did you hear that? EVERYBODY is laughing at you. Even us on this bad website. Stand up and put him in his place.
NEVER WORRY ABOUT WHAT OTHERS THINK! Only what YOU THINK IS RELEVANT, ITS YOUR
IFE. Don't let other peoples, there uneducated and
its okay.. your boyfriend is secretly a muslim.. he's planning on marrying four women.. its totaly fine just stay because youll have sex in a 3some or even more :) thats amazing.
I understand people think you are dumb for not getting what "Poundtown" means, but I will treat this as if you are not a total twit. I would have made the same inquiry as a 17 year-old (the age when I first started dating). Cheating may be prevalent, and sort of the "norm," but I personally do not think you should accept this. Confront him about it.
I think that you know what it means, just don't want to admit it for persecution for knowing. How do you know pound town? Oh bet you have been there... You slut.
Monogamy definition is: marriage with only one person at a time.
Zoology. the practice of having only one mate.
the practice of marrying only once during life.
We do only have one true love. They will always be your one love, your wife, soul mate etc.
having sexual experiences with others isn't wrong or not being monogamous. You only love that one person you live your life (if your lucky) with that person. Having sex with another doesn't alter this, you can give your heart and share your life with only one, but you can fuck, explore, fantasise and desire others. We do, all of us, to accept who we are, our desires and all, is when you find real happiness and embrace "the meaning of life"
isex with the same person for life is un natural and an in humane act. TO OURSELVES, OUR SPECIES AND OUR DESIRES. LIBIDO.
Control is not the answer to life. Living is the answer to life.
Your soul mate, the perfect fit for you is out there, we don't all find them, or we do and sabotage it and lose them.
SET IT FREE, IF IT COMES BACK, IT WAS MEANT TO BE. IF IT DOESNT. IT WAS NEVER MEANT TO BE. Simple and true.
I have me my soul mate, I was a doubter a disbeliever that you could feel that euphoria of life and love, that completeness. I even fought it, lost him a few times (in the physical sense) but we are together and have unconditional love and complete happiness and a sense of calm and strength is the result.
When your meant to be together, you really are together. Together as words can not define. You accept, understand, learn, embrace each other for who you are. You don't try to change, wish you could change, hope to change. That is a diluted and self harming behaviour, it will bring you only pain, loss and heartache. Worse, prevent you from finding true happiness, happiness that we all crave, are capable and control.
Then, when you enter this state of living, Lethe journey of really LIVING and EXPERIENCING LIFE BEGINS.
Everything is much more..........together you take each other on a journey, a journey that has no bounds, lawless, non consequential to you as a unit. No matter what.
There should be nothing that you can't experience (say, do, voice) with your partner. This is so true and when you understand the meaning of those words, you have it. UNCONDITIONAL LOVE. Nothing is right wrong, gross, weird or whatever. It just is.
You become the same, your characteristics are his and his yours, so much so that they become just YOU TWO.
Ok first off unless im seriously mistaken your bf fucked that girl. Second you should ask him about it if my gf found out about it and didnt say anything I'd be gravely disappointed and not respect her as much. Just try to remain calm at least untill you have proof that he cheated tell him you dont mind or you wanna be included once he admits it kick his fuckin ass.
His behaviour is the truth. Men are men, to be fair he is just being human and the act of what he did is not wrong, nor does he feel wrong about it. It's the hurt that you will feel if you found out. He can love you, and fuck another woman. The act of flicking another woman isn't the problem, it's the hurt and scene that would happen when and if you find out. How much similar wouldn't be. Hi honey how was your day? Awesome I fucked this random chick on the way home in the car.
Oh yeah, tell me what she looked like, did you cum deep in her pussy. Get her wet ."...... Well there are so many details to know.
My moto. Fuck anyone you want, but get a video, tell me the story and BE HONEST.
Talk, talk, talk about everything. Your thoughts, fantasies, it opens life up to so many possibilities. You don't ask you don't get, know or understand.
These are just my thoughts, from my experiences and I have had more than a few like yours.
ULTIMATELY - BE TRUE TO YOU. Don't be afraid of exploring all possibilities.
See my story for more insight.
Be friendly with your BF, be flirty, friendly and sexy/coy, tell him that you have a confession to make, that you imagined him with another woman, a sexy slutty woman, that you I visioned them together, and that it turned you on. That you continued the vision, controlling it, made him fucki her hard and rough, hear moans of pleasure loud in your head.
It was like being in a dream but awake. I felt arroused and my pussy was throbbing. Then I don't know what happened but I was panting, wriggling with pleasure and pulling my double ended dildo out of my wet sore pussy. Then I felt very guilty and naughty, confused but content.
. Ask? Do you think it was wrong, wrong that I thought those things and fucked myself till I came? What does this mean about me??? Why did I think that?
And my pussy is throbbing from telling you.
That or encourage him to go again, you follow and watch, from a distance. With a camera? Or walk on by and join in, or have your own rendezvous there, at the same time.
Poundtown is not a specific place, but you should ask him to take you there anyway.
If anything, he will know that you are aware of his affair, and behave in future ;)