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my boyfriend wont stop biting me! he dosnt do it in a nasty way but not a sexual way either. He says he cant help but bite me but he bites really hard on my arms, neck, cheeks anywhere really. He does apologise after but says he just can't help it and thinks hes got a compulsive biting disorder.
to the people saying bite him back, that would probly make it worse, and if you bite him down there, expect a fist to the face, cause thats really f*cked up.
Next time during sex bite him where it hurts, this should teach him a lesson. lol
Or maybe he should seek help, or get a chew toy.
If his last name is Lecktor, call the cops.
On second thought, you are prolly already dead.
my boyfreind tried biting me once he bit down hard so i kneed him right in the crotch really hard when he fell down i punched him in the eye. i told him if he ever bit me again during sex or otherwise the same would happen again only harder. he was tearing up and apoligized. i DONT like pain mixed with sex i dont mind if he wants me to bite him i will if he wants but i dont want it and wont tolerate it. a freind of my sisters is dating this guy who started playfully biting her and then it turned into whenever he got "drunk" he would elave bruises and now its at the point where he bites her hard enough to where he breaks skin and has even sent her to the ER with a fever of 104 and an abcess which could have killed her had it been left untreated. she has scars from where he has started taking chunks of skin out when they have sex he pins her down to bite her. he keeps apolagizing but he still does it and she still puts up with it becuase "he says hes sorry" dont turn out like my sisters freind everytime he does it i would punch him hard square in the face or balls.
i suggest biting him back, hard. then see his reaction, if he enjoys it, i suggest you get out while you can, if not, he will understand why you don't like it.
I bite my friends all the time.
I dunno why, I enjoy it.
I'm a girl tho.
I went to school with this guy that sat next to me and all the time for no reason and no warning he would just turn his head and bite my shoulder and it would turn in to this purple green yellowy thing that would bleed? WTF. If it dusnt hurt and it's like nibbles down ur neck it's great or like a little boob bite. Some boys can b ruffer then they realize.
New here..call me dumb not sure when this was posted...but let me tell you... I went TOO long dealing with this from my boyfriend turned husband turned ex...
If it doesn't seem right..then it more than likely isn't! He apologized to me too..but it progressed into more issues and more abuse. If you are being hurt..you ask him to stop...he keeps going on and "apologizing"....it may only get worse...
Counseling its always a great thing! For some I know it works. But don't do what I did (do still sometwheneverimes sadly...) Be up at all hours of the night, seeing if what you're going through isn't right or normal.. It took a lot therapy and talking with friends to realize what was going on.
Some of the replies are funny lol but please, it us serious..I hope you are doing ok...good luck!
My boyfriend is doing the same thing. I just posted about it. He bites me and pinches me and pops my toes, which hurts like hell. I don't know why he does it. I fear it's the beginnings of physical abuse and that it will lead to more. It's like a way of controlling me or something. It's not good.
I found this site because of the biting pinching my boyfriend has started doing, but I never expected to find someone else whose boyfriend pops their toes. As much as I laughed because maybe it is normal, I am worried because it does hurt and the toe popping is horrible. So what has happened with you and yours? I feel like it is a passive aggressive way to hurt me that I can't really stop. I would rather he hit me so I could hit him back. Thoughts?
it is because he is srupid, and bored. the only thing he can do is hurt you so he can have a laugh while you are agonizing in pain, all the guys do hurt each other in one way or another, just for fun. he just sees you as a person he can trust.
Absolutely ridiculous...!! What you need to do is cover / coat the area where we bites with some liquid exlax, or the foulest tasting medication that you can find..
Once he ingests some of this, and develops a case of the "trots" maybe then he will stop..
Another product you can use is Visene.. Also does wonders in a drink of any sort.. Will have him on the move for a long time...!!
Rachelle In High Heels
That's not normal! I would smack the piss out of him. Enough is enough :)
..oh and mine wasn't during sex.... Typically it was out of anger for me not giving it up or other stupid bull
bite his balls off then rip open his stomoch LOL JUST JOKING but seriously bite him where it hurts
It could be a fetish, or he could be slightly masochistic... Chances are if he's biting you, he craves the same, so biting back would be a bad idea if you want it to stop, not get worse. If you're really against it you need to tell him to stop or you'll leave him, and if he doesn't stop stick by your word - he obviously doesn't care about your wants, thus he doesn't care about you. But on the other hand - I know the biting does tend to hurt quite a bit, and leaves tender patches afterwards, but if he really enjoys that and it realllllly turns him on, you could try to compromise a bit. Besides, if you tell him to lick the bite afterwards, TRUST me you'll enjoy it.. Bite can be a blessing and curse, but it is somewhat normal and a handful of men do take part in it. If he cares though,he should respect you and know when to stop.
Biting is totally hot. Taking and Giving bites is top. What dude hasn't wanted to bite the back of his girl's neck, not necessarily hard but just firm, and just go to town? Come on. Bite him back. He'll dig it I promise. It's innate.
For the past month or so i've had a really bad problem with biting too. My boyfriend doesn't mind it but my best friend hates it. Just make sure he doesn't do it too hard and if it's annoying you or hurting you lay down the line and tell him to stop.
hhmm i get bitten too and it does hurt. I let him know though and bite back he doesn't like that! haha So yeah if it occurs all the time contact a psychiatrist for sure.
bitting is hot, if he kept bitting me i wouldnt have a problem he would, lol
I find that extremely cute, if he bites you again, defend yourself, slap him on the face.
your boyfriend is a sadist~!...be careful you might be one of those certified masochist!
Do not have adverse sentiments;your boyfriend must loves you a lot.Because I will bite my beloved,too!XD
My partner does that all the time. I got slightly irritated with him for it last night, but he told me its because sometimes he doesnt know how to portray his extreme affection for me, and it comes out in the form of biting. Its like the need to squeeze a really cute animal.
my boyfriend bites me everywhere, i had to smack him sometimes till he stops..he will bite so hard till it leaves a mark (blueblack). & he doesnt feel guilty bout it saying its his way of showing me some love & its his way of marking his territory, it hurts like hell... he bites my lips hard too till it gets swollen. hmm, just dont understand his biting habit. i have 2 new bruises as we speak. Not sure if its normal as ive not experienced this in my past relationships. Kindly give me your feedback.
My man does that biting thang also. I have 3 bruises as i post this now. I guess he's marking his territory, idk, but I don't mind!
Sometimes I can't help myself either I just have to have a little bite . Just a little bite
If I had a boyfriend who bit me in the neck I would laugh like crazy and wiggle around even if it was hard.
My boyfriend used to do this to me, I had gross bruises all over my arms! break up with him, get back together the next day.. and he'll never do it again :)
My ex used to bite me,he said he found me irresisteble..lol i dont even knw what the heck he meant by that
get him a chew toy from the grocery store. its only a couple dollars and he'll be alright then maybe.
Perhaps he is a furry. Ask him if he ever thinks of himself as an animal. Or if he belives he has an alter ego that is in animal. Either way it sounds like he needs proffesianol help, may I suggest a psychiatrist or the human society.
Sincerely yours Dr I.A. Rachel