My boyfriends dad is a creep

Take the evidence to the cops. That'll straighten him out.

"Hes a truck driver so of course hes addicted to porn "

I'm not sure how the one follows the other.

I would handle it a clockwork orange style.

Not only is the behavior of that father (assuming, of course, it was the father and not someone else in the family) NOT normal, and definitely creepy, it's also illegal.

I would tell your boyfriend and his brother and his girlfriend. She should know what he is up to. Could it be possible that the bro made the video and left it on the flash drive?

What a creep. Tell your boyfriend and his brother, and show them the evidence if they don't believe you.

That's so creepy and even scary, I would freak out. Talk to your boyfriend about it... Or talk to the cops if you want to teach a leasson to that old perv.

Go to the cops. Don't have family meeting like some of these idiots are saying. He will deny it or get violent.

OMG, my boyfriends step dad is super creepy. I always feel like there's cameras around everytime I change and stuff. I always thought I was paranoid, but now I'm starting to wonder... eekkkkk

Dump your bf, problem solved.

The future's leaking through a shut lead door
In the ruins of a city under the forest floor.
Your naked body's buried in a vacant field
What does your body feel now?

The air is black and has no oxygen
The bodies in the river float beneath the sun
Transparent skin it shines a light from deep within
Where does your body begin?

The stars are hidden by a mirrored sky
And darkness disappears behind reflected light
Perception is a distance in a closed-in space
How will your body escape?

The crowd is feeling you inside your head.
Your imagination's canceled by its opposite
And every possibility's been proved untrue
Now is your body you?

its his house isn't it so he has the right to have cameras in it maybe he doesn't trust some people.

tell your Boyfriend and his brother, and his girlfriend too. They might need to have a word with him or tell their mother maybe, what he's done is past creepy and into illegal and he has to stop now before it gets out of hand. I wouldn't want to shower or change there either.

Household meeting confront him with ur bf the brother and his girlfriend that's not right u deserve respect and privacy
Home should be a place of peace
If u feel unsafe and uncomfortable do something
Good luck

If your boyfriend doesnt support on you this and defends his dad then you should leave him and the family. If your boyfriend agrees this is creepy, then try to move somewhere else with him

Don't waste time over-thinking, just go to the police!

Call the cops

1 Your boyfriend did not have to watch videos from the camera to borrow the flash drive. He was violating his father's privacy (maybe he takes after his father!)

2 You must consult the victim before doing anything. If you go to the cops you will need the video and a whole lot more people will end up seeing her naked

He wants it

Here's what you do. Get a copy of the video, do whatever it takes, he may have a copy on his hard drive. Just get a copy of that video and then send it directly to me.

Sounds like a normal guy. Seriously. No really. Seriously.

You lived with him for 3 years and no harm has ever come to you? Yah sounds like a terribly dangerous creepster! lol

Of course I'm being sarcastic but it's to prove a point. That he filmed the girl only means he admires her and is turned on by her and probably couldn't stand it any longer but didn't want to cause any trouble so he did it in secret.

I guarantee you... tons of men would love to do this, but never do, out of fear of being caught.

If a confidential survey was taken, of 1000 random men, that asked if they would like to see a video of their son's hot girlfriend showering, and that nobody would ever find out, and that there would be no consequences ever, I promise you, at LEAST 900 out of 1000 would say YES.

Are they all creepsters? All of them?

Hmm. Interesting, isn't it.

Show his brother and his girlfriend, then call the cops.
That'll teach the pervert.
Also be careful. he could have one in your room

Video evidence or it didn't happen....

Its not much of a life he is living

I would play it cool. Continue as if nothing is wrong, and maybe try finding more flash drives. Or maybe snoop around and get access to the cameras, or maybe you should get your boyfriend to do this in case you get caught. Then when you get the evidence, go to the police. Unless your boyfriend does not want you going to the police because it is his father that would be getting evidence. Then, I suppose you should move out. If you and your boyfriend are able to move out then I would do that. Maybe move in with his brother and girlfriend if you don't have enough money, and if they say no tell them why. The girlfriend can't honestly say no if she found out that man had saved footage of her in the shower.

Try typing in english next time.

That's hot, just like the shower water.

Just kidding.

Anyways, you need to take action. Have a word with him; whatever it takes.

he's a creep...go to the cops

Get you ass outta that house. Pronto.

Omg, that's...horrible!
I would just call the police, that they take that creep to prison.

does this tend to run in the family? if it does, I'd be checking outta that family.

I think the girlfriend has a right to know. But i don't think my boyfriend wants to believe hos dad is that major of a creep. His whole family jist pretends like something didn't happen and i guess they think that'll make it go away. My boyfriendeleted it from the drive in panic. I want to never see his dad again. Can you tell the police ananonymously?