My childhood friend and i got in fight, need some advice

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childhood friend of a really long time about 20 years ago and i got in a fight because of his jokes, he joked and messed up with my girlfriend that he does not know and called her bad stuff not once but more than 3 times and this time i put limits, ignored him, he prepared me food i rejected it because he didn t know what was wrong at first till he came over and talked to me saying he is pissed off and when he knew why i was pissed of he said he thought there was no limits between us or i knew better and all that, he is nice but however he passes limits and i forgave him too many times quickly and he always repeat his bad habits, he apologized and was expecting me to apologize because of him doing good to me and me getting bothered and ignoring him the same day etc, what to do? who is right? who is wrong?

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  • Bake34
    8 years ago

    Nobody is right or wrong. It's how he feels about it and how you feel about it. If he doesn't respect how you feel and stop teasing your girlfriend or whatever he was doing (Your comment was hard to read), then he's being a shitty friend.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      He is a nice friend, however, have some bad flaws. He always use hands '' fight'' as joking. He says shit as joking and expect me to understand it is a joke since we sometimes joke to one another.

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      • yu-gi-ohChampion25
        8 years ago

        um maybe he's a little stressed and not himself lately

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago

          He has been doing constantly from time to time from a year ago till now, he is stressed, lonely and all but i do not believe this is an excuse to say shitty stuff, right?

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          • Bake34
            8 years ago

            Right. You guys have been friends for years he shouldn't want to jeopardize that for some cheap laughs. You need to set some clear boundaries because somewhere over the years they disappeared and he's taking advantage of that.

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              8 years ago

              He didn't just talk bad he also said that my girlfriend doesn't know me and if she does she would realize it was a mistake to be with me. What kind of friend is that?

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