My crush liked me back

So I had a crush on this guy for sometime and one day he suddenly confessed to me that he likes me I didn't knew what to do so I also confessed that I had a crush on him and then gradually we started dating he is a really nice guy who showers me with lots of love but I realised that what I had for him was just infatuation and I don't really love him. I feel really bad for him cause he deserves better but I don't know how to tell him that about how I feel about him cause I'm scared of hurting him

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  • sweetone89

    It will hurt him. But you want to know what will hurt him even more? If you go on pretending. Tell him as soon as possible, in a kind way. Don't waste his time in a relationship that isn't going anywhere.

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    • Idk how to tell He is nice but to only me...like he is into yandere things and I'm a bit scared because of it what if he reacts bad

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      • sweetone89

        What are yandere things?

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        • Yaidin

          Mommy issues. Basically when you want a psycho girlfriend that controls your life

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        • Yandere is a portmanteau of two Japanese words. The first is yanderu, which means “to be sick,” and the second is deredere, used here for “lovestruck.” A yandere is often sweet, caring, and innocent before switching into someone who displays an extreme, often violent or psychotic, level of devotion to a love interest. (copied from Google lol)

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          • sweetone89

            Just tell him and move on. If he can't, you can always get help. The police. Campus security, etc.

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  • Menacingduck

    "Hey, so I really don't love you, I just had an infatuation with you."

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  • RoseIsabella

    He sounds yucky.

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  • 1WeirdGuy

    Love isnt like the movies. I think alot of young ppl fail in relationships because they're expecting this crazy feeling that doesnt exist for more than a few weeks of meeting someone. Dont lose a good catch. You arent gonna keep butterflies for anyone forever. You may never find a guy that good again. That happened to my sister.

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  • Somenormie

    I'm glad that he likes you back but don't get too invested over it.

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  • MonteMetcalfe

    Buyers remorse.

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