My dad just married my ex girlfriend

Ok so my dads always been a bit friendly with my girlfriends i always figured he was just being nice, you know hugs when they see each other and such and then last summer he called me up and told me he was marring my ex and that they had been seeing each other for yrs. keep in mind that our break-up over laps there relationship's beginning. Now im forced to see her and my dad make out every thanksgiving and holiday (eww) is it normal for me to not approve of this relationship?

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Based on 330 votes (184 yes)
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  • Carolinne

    When he's old and weak, just leave him without any help.
    It's the perfect revenge. I'm not joking here, that's just an idea.

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    • mynameisunknown

      da best advise ever

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  • koifish

    That's really strange. Considering you probably had sex with her and your dad did too, weird..

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  • DannyKanes

    *vomits*

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  • 68newman

    Definitely normal, I couldn't imagine anyone being ok with this. Bad enough he dated your ex, but even more disgusting that it started while she still wasn't your ex.

    I say skip out on the holiday meals if you're subjected to that.

    Or you could go totally the other way, and at the dinner table, say things like "Hey _____, remember the time when we were having sex and you _____" or "Do you still like it when ______ during sex?" Make your dad feel uncomfortable and awkward.

    BTW, this kinda reminds me of Bill and Ted.. 'Hi Missy... I mean Mom"

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  • ComeFlyWithMe

    The way you feel-totally normal

    What your dad and ex did-totally not normal

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  • kellstar

    Yuk!! He is your dad!! How could he?? Ewwww

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  • Rusty-Rider

    She is your "EX" girlfriend.
    What relationship she is in is none of your business.
    As long as she is of legal age, she can date or marry whoever she chooses.
    Carry on with your own life and find the right girl for yourself.

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    • niceman

      well said i agree with you

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  • PhillipLoco

    Sloppy seconds lol

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  • stockcat

    Oh my gosh! I think I can explain the 31% who think the questionnaire's feelings are not normal: I accidentally clicked on "no" because I thought: "No, his father and his ex are not normal."

    The questionnaire is completely normal and to not an issue with his father's actions would be insane.

    I am so sorry to hear that something this terrible could happen to anyone.

    Wow! This is terrible!

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  • aussiewolf

    thanks Carolinne! :)

    another note though, your dad did you a favour showing his true colours and taking her away from you because who knows how much longer you would have wasted your time with her and then finding out she has been with another guy behind your back. try to look at the positives in every situation. she will probably cheat on your dad within the year anyway. im sure you will find a really nice and loyal girl who doesnt have daddy issues who actually wants to be with a guy her own age. best of luck!

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  • Carolinne

    Agreed ^
    love your comments Aussie

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  • aussiewolf

    for your dad to date your ex is one of the most ultimate betrayals. personally i would never speak to him again. where is the trust and loyalty when he steals your girlfriend away from you? and for her to do that too, that is just wrong. just wait though for when you dad gets old and cant get it up anymore, she is going to leave him for a younger guy then he is going to be left with nothing.

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  • bleach_baby

    yeah what a dick you should tell your dad to fuck off, what an absolute dick

    only 63 percent think its normal for you to hate this? wtf?

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  • niceman

    nothing wrong in his dad marrrying his ex she can have a relationship with who she wants to it her life and none of her exs business as they are no longer in a relationship should act like an adult and acept it and not fall out with his farther and ex and just carry on with the same relationship with is farther that they always have had and move on and find a new women thats what he should do i would if he was me

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  • Mersaphe

    Just be glad that someone finds your ex attractive. You sound more bitter that you let her go

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  • la_uva_mojada

    your dad's a douche bag

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  • shag776

    I just puked on your behalf

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    • shag776

      But if you can deal with it and they are truly in love then its okay (vomit again)

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  • emilio

    i accidentaly clicked on no lol. But your dad has no values sry >.< And this is f-ing gross

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  • cheesey_jelly

    Oh and by the way, tell your dad he can get f**cked. And tell your ex that too. And even though there's only 63% of people who think it's normal, there should be 100% ... Because I'd hate my dad for that. And I don't blame you. Again, low posters dad, low. You should be ashamed. *shakes head in disgust*

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  • cheesey_jelly

    Dude, I feel sorry for you. That's low. Really low. I can't believe your dad would do that. And I can't believe your girlfriend would cheat on you with your dad. Uhhhh... Gross man, gross! And really insensitive.

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  • iamandam

    dayum

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  • a_blonde_paradox

    That's a pretty shitty situation, my friend. Esp knowing that the time your dad and your ex's relationship overlaps your own...that's fucked up. Don't feel bad about the way you feel. It's normal. I'd be hella pissed.

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  • sararose

    Dude that is just plain fucked up. Tell your dad he can go fuck himself! Just never talk to him again and completely ignore him. And yes it is totally okay not to approve of this relationship. Your father has a lot of nerve. I am assuming your ex is a lot younger than your father, therefore you are the same age as her (am I right?) you shouldn't have to put up with watching your dad "make out" with your ex. Your father must have problems, chasing after his sons girlfriends! He is jealous and that is totally rude and disgusting that he was dating your ex while she was not your ex quite yet. He probably had sex with her, and im assuming you did too. That's nasty. I wish you look.

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  • randomjelly

    Wow. Just wow.

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