My friend is really cringey, but i like them?

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My best friend of three years has been acting really gross, kind of cringey- they're a transsexual, pansexual, "little" wolf-kin. They use the tag smol.meme.boy for almost everything, and pretend to be "little" around me. They used to ask me to be their mommy. they draw "black flowergender" thor and stuff like that. They can really negatively impact my mental health, because they lie to me a lot and act kind of uncontrollable. But, I really like them. They're funny when they're not being cringey. They're really cute too, especially when they take off their weird tail and fur-head. I still like them a lot, I can't deny it. What should I do? Should I stage an intervention, Leave them all together, or forget about my feelings?

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  • charli.m
    5 years ago

    The whole "little" thing creeps me out on so many levels...but let's put that aside...

    Forcing you to be a part of their "little play" or whatever the fuck its called is unethical. Any kink community of decent people require all parties to consent to it...and this person acting "little" in front of you is not obtaining your consent if it makes you so uncomfortable.

    Your own mental health needs to br a priority.

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  • charli.m
    5 years ago

    Wut

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    • mauzi
      5 years ago

      idk lol just some weird rant i found online that reminded me of him

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      • charli.m
        5 years ago

        I couldn't read most of it, the paragraphing was maddening.

        Same as
        When
        People think this
        Is how you format
        Sentences
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        Edit: oh. You fixed it.

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        • mauzi
          5 years ago

          Haha yeah sorry, i saved it in a notepad file and when copied over it formatted that way. I was going to leave it for being more funny, but it looked to conspicuous

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          • charli.m
            5 years ago

            Fair enough.

            Don't post it too often. Fuckhead'll jump on that shit.

            a-h's latest account got banned for copy pasting too many responses...

            Admittedly, they were in a row...but...you know how it is...

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            • mauzi
              5 years ago

              hahah!! does he still use this site much? also who exactly is the fuckhead, just udi in general or a specific reporter troll? i wanna make sure i block them all. i was never big into the idea of blocking but it actually does make the site a bit more enjoyable.

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  • BlindSpot
    5 years ago

    Huh

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  • megadriver
    5 years ago

    I would definitely feel weird having someone like that near me... Also lying - a big no no. Friendship is built on trust and respect. I can not be friends with a liar.

    But hey, it's your friend. Talk to it. Especially about the little thing... That's fucked up. If any of my friends asked me if I could be their mommy, or daddy and acted in any way to make us look like retards, I'd cut all ties instantly.

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  • megadriver
    5 years ago

    Hahahaha! This is the best shit I've read on here for quite some time. Where'd you get this from?

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    • mauzi
      5 years ago

      https://forums.superherohype.com/threads/can-my-neighbors-hear-me-fapping-and-farting-through-the-walls.471889/

      the whole topic is pretty funny

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      • megadriver
        5 years ago

        More people need to read this garbage. Been laughing for the past half hour.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Your friend suffers from acute liberalism. It starts with questioning basic shit like sex and attraction because they haven't got real problems (or they have big problems like sexual/emotional abuse). Then they move on to the "mind so open the brain falls out" stage of full lunacy. Basically your friend is deeply confused and needs urgent help, the kind you can't provide to them. It's best to cut ties for your own good.

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  • SpencerTreePuncher
    5 years ago

    my friend you have a serious problem here. you need a shovel, or some kind of blunt object, perhaps a bat? this will keep them away

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    I'd be wanting to move.

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    • mauzi
      5 years ago

      hahaha I didn't write that I just found it kinda funny.

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  • SwickDinging
    5 years ago

    When you say "like" do you mean just as a friend, or maybe more? Just reading between the lines here, I could be way off...

    Also I'd be careful around people who lie to you a lot. It's not a good trait in a friend. Then again, if it's easy for you to tell when they are lying and it doesn't bother you much then it probably doesn't do much harm.

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  • Ellenna
    5 years ago

    How many friends are you talking about? The heading says "friend" but the body of your post keeps saying "they".

    Whatever, if you're uneasy around them find some new friends or a new friend.

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    • Pumpurrnickel
      5 years ago

      they
      /T͟Hā/Submit
      pronoun
      1.
      used to refer to two or more people or things previously mentioned or easily identified.
      "the two men could get life sentences if they are convicted"
      2.
      used to refer to a person of unspecified gender.
      "ask someone if they could help"

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      • LornaMae
        5 years ago

        Nice try, but I think it will still fly over her head... ;)

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        • Ellenna
          5 years ago

          No need to be insulting, I was merely seeking clarification as this current trend of using a plural word to refer to one person is confusing

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          • LornaMae
            5 years ago

            I'm sorry about that. They have been using the pronouns for a very long time, though.

            Like 10 years. Google would've told you that if you bothered to look into it before commenting.

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