My high school crush/friends sister.(serious question)

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I have had a crush on my friend since jr high even after high school I still kind of have feelings for her.

Her younger sister is someone I have only originally spoken to a couple of times when I first meet her she was still in elementary and me/her sister was close to the end of our jr high years.

I spoke to her a bit more when I was in high school and she was in jr high and I would only see her a few times and usually when my friend was around.

After high school I did not see her sister all that much other then a few times when festivals and such would happen. Me and my friend still hangout from time to time but her sister I wouldnt see for some years.

About a week ago I ran into her sister who now lives five towns over around the corner from one of my aunts.

We were never what you call friends but we were at her place I stayed for about a week.

We spoke about a lot of things I mentioned I had a crush on her sister and she told me that she had a crush on me.

I felt conflicted about it and we didnt just start having sex right away but eventually we did about three different times and sometimes we would just be next to each other and just talk.

I think that we are dating because we have been hanging out a lot now my friend dose not know what we are doing.

My question is apart of me feels a little gross about this I liked my friend for a long time and I am sure she was aware of it.

But I lacked the balls to say anything to her and thats on me.

I feel that apart of me is doing this as a way to substitute her sister as a way of being with her.

Also I still remember her as the smiling little brat who would sometimes tag along with her sister.

I feel like a total creep but I do feel like I really care for her its not just about the sex I really feel a connection with her.

Like each time I am near her I feel a mix of emotions.

Is it normal to feel gross about what I am doing? At some point people will find out that we are seeing each other and a lot of people know that I had a thing for my friend/crush.

I am worried that they will think that I am being gross.

Its not like I always looked at her as I do now.

What do I do?

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  • SmokeEverything
    3 years ago

    Thanks for breaking your gigantic wall of words into sections to make it easier to read.

    Just date your friends sister bro its not a big deal

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  • darefu
    3 years ago

    Just let it run it course, but don't lead her on by saying you're something you're not. I had the opposite I was dating older sister with crush on younger. Older sister knew I liked younger sis and I didn't hide it. YS never developed feelings for me and OS and I eventually went our own way because the deep feelings just never developed.
    We enjoyed ourselves while it lasted and never misled the other. And yes I still kind of have a crush on YS even though it's been years.
    Just because you like someone doesn't mean they're going to like you. Live the life you're dealt. Good luck

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  • a-curious-bunny
    3 years ago

    If it comes up dont deny you had a crush on her. Be like yea I did nothing ever happened but then I got to know her sister and we really hit it off. It just happens. I wouldn't try to sweat it. Unless they look identical or something your fine.

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