My man has become a whiny little bitch

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I've been married for 10 years... Long story short, he has become the old lady in the marriage. When he isn't criticizing the way I do things he's bitching about uthe neighbors, family, his job, whatever. I spend too much, I don't clean well enough I'm a " retard " . But, he doesn't shop or do laundry or cook-- but be won't eat frozen dinners. If he were a woman he'd be a nag, a scold, a whiny bitch, I'm tired of the complaining. Is it normal for a man to be such a whiny picky pants?

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    Leave him or put up with the person you chose to be with.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      He changed a lot. And it's not that simple when you're married. He isn't abusive or cheating and I'm not financially independent.

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      • [Old Memory]
        8 years ago

        You perhaps should offound ways to have your own income incase of this...

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago

          I work but together with him is barely enough. I'd rather not get divorced, I wish I could get it across to him how to stop putting me down all the time

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  • deshikd
    8 years ago

    I agree with the other person, stop stereotyping by sex. But ANYWAY. Tell him to learn to appreciate you, or just let him do all of that himself. He shouldn't be talking to you that way. If he doesn't get a better attitude, tell him to hit the road.

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  • matthewkoehler
    7 years ago

    You should be more considerate of the struggles that men face in today's world.

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  • thefuckup
    8 years ago

    Two miserable people should not be together.Trust me i know.

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  • theseeker
    8 years ago

    Sounds like he hates his life, which also tells you how he probably feels about your marriage. Otherwise, he wouldn't be bitching. No one wants to be around somebody with that much negativity. At this rate, it will be an unhappy marriage or one that's destined to fail.

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    Enough with the stereotypes! Yr description proves that nagging and whining and whingeing aren't confined to women - is that such a surprise?

    I wouldn't eat frozen dinners either but what's wrong with his arms? Can't learn to cook?

    If you're still doing all the cooking, cleaning, shopping and laundry and he's still continually complaining, have you asked hi what his last slave died of?

    Get out from under woman, life's too short to spend any time with this miserable selfish waste of space

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    • Tpd8641
      8 years ago

      Too right, I'd say move on. Time to find a caring, sharing person that appreciates you. Whilst you're looking, invest in some gaffa tape to silence that gob.

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      • Ellenna
        8 years ago

        Yeah, sneak up on him while he's asleep, slap it on, have her bags packed and run like hell, don't look back

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