My mom makes me feel crazy
I wouldn't have a problem with my mum disciplining me (she's scottish so i think it's just culture) but pretending she didn't just box me in the chin for talking back to her screaming and instead giving me 'im moving you out the way' just infuriates me.
She will put words into my mouth that I never said, hit me and pretend i was just in the way, and play victim to an unruly child in front of family. It's literally sickening. Sometimes I will just be sitting on a chair, normally, and she will pretend I'm dangerous, and tell people 'she's in a foul mood, be careful OwO' as if the previous night she didn't just scream at me and hit me. She's so two faced and keeps telling family members my business too, even turning my siblings against me for the drama. It makes me feel crazy being a part of this house. No one will believe me because I'm just the kid. I'm big you're small, I'm right you're wrong. I feel like I'm going insane here, she gives everyone a false truth and makes me feel like the liar but I know I'm not. Not to mention years of being violent and controlling to me when I was little, and wondering why I never stood up for myself in school. I learned to go numb and tune out when I was anticipating pain.
I feel crazy because I see the violent bog witch when it's just us, and when people are here she becomes sweet and gentle and understanding. She is often so cold and overlooks my achievements, is passive aggressive, and then will act incredibly affectionate so I almost forget how mean she can be. And sometimes, I feel like I need her, we can feel really close, but I always regress as a person because of her. And why does she remember every bad thing I do for the next two months? When I bring up what she did and ask why she did it, she's like 'why are you hurting me with your words? you're such an aggressive person!' which feels so manipulative
I feel like when I'm out the house for a while, I become my own person. I know myself better. I'm not crazy, not evil, not a sociopath. I get confidence, feel like a human. That's why I look forwards to going to uni, because I think I will stop feeling isolated and crazy. I want to change my own name too. I don't want to be Olivia because that name belongs to those who have hurt me. I can't wait to get away from this place. anyway sorry for wall of ranting, just wanted to know if anyone is going through anything similar.