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My mother has always encouraged me to masturbate in our living room. She made me do it the first time when I was like 12. She says its healthy to do it in the open. I have never seen her do it but she sometimes tells me when she has just cum and how good it was.
Guys at school tell me I'm weird. Am I or should I just carry on?
Nothing surprises me anymore in this forum. I just read a story where a teen guy was doing this in front of his sister.
Maybe it's the same guy?
So; no it's not normal, and i think my parents would have disowned me if i had done this in front of my mother in the living room.
No this is not normal. My mom did the same thing from 13 to 16. i used to like it but it really is wrong and will jack up your head.
Ok...
On one hand I'm thinking, maybe your mother is aiming to teach you that sexuality is acceptable and that you don't need to think it's bad or something to be ashamed of. On the other hand, I don't think anyone can help but feel she's taken it a bit too far.
Encouraging you to feel no shame, by never telling you that it is bad, and that if you have questions about sex or sexuality you are free to talk to her is great; but forcing you or insisting that you masturbate in the livingroom in front of her is a bit too controlling, and her admissions about coming from watching you go beyond a motherly interest.
Sex is completely natural, as is masturbation, but the fact is they are still personal matters. You should be free to tell your mom that you would rather not engage in front of her and she should have no issue accepting this, and you should make the "break" because as you've shown by posting here, it's causing a bit of disturbance and confusion in other areas of your life. There's no way to tell from the info you've given that your mom isn't a free-love hippie type that just doesn't want to see you sexually scared or scarred... or if she has some sort of sexual issues.
You don't presently seem too negatively affected, and I hope that remains the case.
THAT IS SO WRONG. I have sons, all good looking- the the point that girls have followed them around, tried to have sex w/ them in public restrooms--
BUT I have NEVER had any desire to be near them in any sexual context. Too wrong. ick.
Your mother needs help, and your friends are correct. SHE KNOWS IT TOO-- tell her you mentioned it to your friends and watch her reaction. She will be mortified or want them to come join you. If she freaks, she KNOWS it's wrong. If she asks you to invite them along, she is mental. Tell someone.
I don't think what your mom does is normal. I had a friend in high school and her family was completely sexually open. If there was a sex scene on tv her 13 year old brother would sometimes masturbate. They would walk around naked and stuff, I thought it was really cool at the time. Her and her brother would just masturbate whenever and wherever, I eventually did the same at her house. I don't remember her mom ever joining in, or paying it much mind. It sounds like your mom is taking advantage though, I mean insisting.
Talking about it is more than fine.
Encouraging you and watching you is quite questionable.
randomsensuallity says it all very well.
Keep it up - mild incest exhibitionism/voyeurism has got to be better than porno!
I support the acceptance of masturbation, but it should be private, I think. Not because it's supposed to be secret, but the whole point of masturbation is self-stimulation. Otherwise it's just sex.
NOT NORMAL. Ur mom is tha one who should be questionin if she normal or not. no offence but ur mom is a fukkin sikko
Tell her NO and only do it alone behind locked doors. Your mom is stepping over the safe line of sex with children and could face prison time. It is sick and she is sick and needs help too. She may have been molested as a child.
If you enjoy jacking off with your mom watching then keep doing it.. I would ask her to show her tits and play with her pussy while you jack off for her.. And like others have said.. Keep your mouth shut.. Enjoy what you have at home..
It happens way more than you think! I was a little younger than you when my mother showed me how,then would watch me jack off until I came!!
And are you ok with it now? You don't feel damaged, but rather blessed? I think the difference between people who say they are damaged and those who are ok is whether or not they were forced against their will, or negatively coerced. But if you were in the presence of kindness, safety and love then it turns out to be a good thing.
dude no, I dont buy that she is tryin to help u be open sexually, she is supposed educate you on sexuality NOT help you explore, not her job, not her role, especially since it started wen u were 12, whether u stop or not is up to you, AND FOR GOD SAKES DO NOT TELL PPL AT SCHOOL, ppl may remember the popular kid or the prettiest girl, BUT NO ONE FORGETS THE KID WHOSE MOM WATCHES HIM JACK OFF!
I don't know what happened to your mom, this behavior must end, and if you want it to stop tell her, if she persists, threaten to tell someone, I believe the police she be involved, but im sure you don't want to lose your mom, or go to a foster home, this has to end, I truly believe you will regret this later
I used to masturbate in front of my mom when I was 15 years old. She walked in my room and I was jerking off and she said it was okay. So I kept stroking it until I came. She said, 'Wow, that was alot." She continued to watch me up until I was 21 and found a girlfriend that I was serious about. My mom said she liked to watch my cum shoot out. Once when I was 20, she pulled her shirt up to let me look at her tits while I masturbated. They were nice!
You have a great mom.
You should have asked her to masturbate in front of you though.
Also you could have asked her to suck your cock while she was watching you.
It would be best if the boy's mother had another mother who has a daughter of the same age group so he can see a girl masturbate. This way, the girl and her son can be very supportive of each other. They can be a blessing to help each other with masturbation and development. If a parent helped their children develop a health support group with other parents whose children are in the same age group, it would help preteens and teens have a safe place with their curiosity about body function. Parents need to work with other parents to develop a safe place in each other home for their children and other children to hang out.
You're kind of lucky that you have a mom like that. Well, in my opinion. I love to masturbate but my mom is away, I have to hide it from my family and nobody in my family will encourage me so I can't tell anybody else. In my opinion of this question it is not weird unless she really makes you and yells at you and things like that. You should do it only if you want to. Tell her that you're your on person and that you can masturbate when you want to. Plus if you're going to do that, you should do it privately at least.
Hi everyone. Everyone does not believe the same things or live the same way. What is wrong or weird to someone is normal to someone else. The same thing happened to me. My mom wAs very open-minded and supportive of me "taking care of my needs." she never embarrassed me. Or made me feel like it was wrong. Her positive attitude toward nudity and sex gave me a self confidence a lot of young boys don't have. I'm lucky to have my mother.
my mom would sit on my bed and hold my balls while I jacked off. when I was done she would lay on her bed and play with herself with a toothbrush
Your main priority should be to satisfy your mother and what better way than to bring her to orgasm.
thats pretty strange,your jacking off for your mom.mabey shes not getting fucked very much and watching you turns her on. when i was 14 my moms friend next door seduced me. we were on the couch watching t.v. and she started asking me a bunch of different questions like how many girlfriends i have at school and do i like to french kiss ? I remember i got hard on and she rubbed it through my pants. she ended up masterbating me with her blouse open.
It is normal for a boy to masturbate and even want people to watch him. It is not normal for a mother to want to watch him. Tell your mother you would rather not masturbate in front of her. Also let her know that by forcing you to do this is incest.
Oh here go hell come!
This isn't right at all. Regardless of your gender and current age, this is "abusive". Please tell someone!!!!
My mom ues to walk in when I masturbate she told that it is normal.Sometimes she would sit on the bed and watch me.Never felt ashamed.I like it when she would watcm me
By sitting on the bed and watching you means she was a part of what you were doing. Preteens or teens are someone to be supportive of and be there for them, so you are not doing it alone. That means we share it with another person who opens the door for you to talk about it. For example, John may ask his best friend Mike, who he knew from kindergarten, how many times you masturbate in a week to help John to know if he is overdoing it.
Hey man, ima level with u. Nothing is normal. If u like her watching, then its normal for u. An for all u bible thumping asswipes, y dont u read what u thump? Incest was very normal once apon a time.
Man, i think u should go for ur mom. Its ur life, and its what u want it to be. I think its sexy, and u should use ur instincts. If u ever beed to talk, ill be here for u. The least i can do for a fello man.
Why would you go and tell everybody at your school you do that wonder if you hav any friends or people talk to you " dumbass "
It's quite normal but I think you should encourage your mom to be naked when you masturbate for her....and perhaps masturbate with you as well. This is how I always did it with my mom and your orgasms will be much more satisfying if you can watch your mom orgasm with you
Consensual, shared intimacy in a living, safe environment is a beautiful thing. To be treasured, imo. I don't get why people can be so uptight about family enjoying spending time together and creating good memories. How is it different from playing board games and laughing together over a silly movie?
Tell your mom to masturbate in front of you or you not gonna do it in the living room anymore
Nudity in the family is totally normal as long no one is forced to be nude. Masturbation is a normal part of family life. Where you masturbate would be normal or abnormal. We do not masturbate in public places as classrooms, restrooms, and school buses. We do not masturbate around strangers or with strangers.
Masturbation is a family matter, and it needs to be kept with family members and your close friends of both gender. In many countries that open masturbation is prevalent among children and teenagers.
Children and teens should be conscientious who they share things with other children and teens. Many preteens and teens deal with their only sexuality and cannot deal with another preteen or teen sexuality.
Children and teens must get strong support from their parents and brothers and sisters in sexuality matters when a family bonds with each other with true love, trust, caring, honesty, and loyalty. It allows doors to be open with each other with personal things.
It is important for parents to support their children in masturbation but not force them. That can lead to walls be developed between you and your child. Mothers do this more than fathers because mothers have a bad habit of talking to other mothers about their child's sexuality. Your child masturbation is a family business and only a family business.
Masturbation does help children and teens to be safe. Masturbation is used for sex urges, stress, anxiety, and relaxation. About 90 percent of people use masturbation at bedtime to help them sleep. It feels good to self-pleasure. It safe, and it does not involve others.
When a mother forces her son to masturbate like in the living room is a little odd. Force is a dangerous word because it means someone else has issues of their only. When a boy or girl masturbates openly in the living room or other place in the home, they are doing it on their own term, which is when it is normal. The same goes for nudity in the home. Many families practices nudism in the home. Many families do not close doors.
It very important that parents be apart of their child sexuality to keep them safe. You do not want your child to go to places they should not. Masturbation and porn do not mix. You can not relate to porn. Porn will mess your mind up quickly and cause you to act inappropriately with others.
When we masturbate and cum, we do not allow body liquid on other objects such as sofa, carpet, bed, and sheets. We do not use other people's clothes for masturbation. For males, it best to be completely naked. You allow your semen and sperm to shoot out onto your chest. Have tissue to clean up. Do not use a washcloth or towel. Females use a towel which is only for masturbation.
Random masturbation with others is not cool, and it is hazardous. Many preteens and teens will masturbate with their close friends of either gender. Be very selective with who you do things with. Be very careful who you spend the night with (sleepovers).
To help control your masturbation is to be careful not to listen to music or watch television shows that have a sexual tone. You should not be reading books that have a sex tone to them. Watch how your conversation is with other teens about sexual matters. Remember, they do not know any more than you know. Many teens will answer, but it may not be facts.
This is not normal, you should masturbate by yourself. Is she attracted to you or you to her?
If your boy then definitely not right, but if your a girl then it depends on how you feel about it if you don;\'t really care then your fine.
Just call her a creep and a perv if she makes you do it and she should stop. If not, bring a laptop into the room, put on two girls one cup and when her face turns to disgust tell her this is what you're into(and say it with no emotion). not sure if it would solve much but it'd be damn funny
This is 100 percent abnormal. you and your mom both are messed in the head
Hey, enjoy yourself. You never said if she was hot or not. Just don't tell anyone!!! Ever!!!! Obviously your mom is starved for any kind of sex. Nest time, have her strip down to her panties and bra. Have a movie camera hidden and tape it all. Just keep quite. A LOT of guys oon this site or fucking their moms or pets!!! Whatever turns you on.