My platonic female friend obviously thinks she's my wife.

Holy crap end the friendship and see if you can file charges for the hacking etc with the police and get an order of protection. By the way, this is NOT how a friend or a wife acts. In your subject you say she's acting like a wife. Please, don't think this happens in a healthy marriage!

No, none of this is normal, she's a straight up psycho-bitch! I think you ought to follow Silly girl77's advice.

Tough to get out of sometimes. I was very close to my female business associate, people thought we were a couple, but we maintained our own separate relationships with the opposite sex. I was dating a beautiful woman who, for some reason, business friend didn't like. Besides the million questions and social media stalking she did to the woman I was dating, she'd try to keep me from her if we were on the road together, making us stop off, stay later wherever we were, or faking her own problems so I'd be late getting home if seeing the woman.

What did it for me was when she/business friend, told me we had to talk, then went into a whole thing about how it was her job to make sure I didn't date the wrong type woman (despite that her own situation was more fkd up than a hooker thrown over a prison wall), and that "she knew best". I flipped out on her, asking how she could be so nutty and controlling, that it was my life and decision to make. Her behavior extended to other business contacts, too. If they were female and attractive, this friend would make up excuses why I couldn't or shouldn't meet with them.

I finally bailed on her for good, telling her she needed to get her own shit together before telling others what to do. Haven't talked to her since.

Not for that reason. Maybe you just need ax her a question heh heh... -_-'

Run way man that bitch is crazy drop her befor it gets worse