My sister and i have sexual touching..is it normal

Ok me and my sister are very close. Shes 22 and im 30. Everyone says I look like im 25. Im engaged and shes with her boyfriend. Everytime we are together we would either kiss each other like a peck on the lips. Or when she is sick or upset she would come and sleep with me in my bed. We would spoon. Everyone knows about it in my family but dont say nothing. Its pretty normal for me and her to do that. When we were younger we would make out but nothing more. Its more as sisterly and brotherly affection. Even my parents know about it. She would even sit on my lap. My fiance knows anout it too but her boyfriend dont. I dont know if its normal. What do you think?

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  • FlyingSheilds

    Wake up people. Most love is not sexual. It sounds like extreme NON-SEXUAL affection to me.

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  • Aberzombie

    You can't call someone sick for that.
    To each is own.

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  • russellnb

    Kissing and making out with your sister? Go for it. There is no one I trust more than my sister and making out with her is great. By the way it is not incest unless there is sex. Enjoy!

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  • emmyems

    if the pecking and spooning is a regular thing for you, then that's one thing. but making out is a different story. and you said yourself that it's considered sexual. does she consider it to be sexual? sexual touching between relatives is NOT normal - it's taboo.

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  • Halfbreed

    Inherently, there's nothing wrong with what your doing. Just because you're more genetically similar to her than most does not and should not mean anything. We're all related on some level; so what? Until society (or awatcher) can come up with a reason that what you and your sister do is "wrong" or "immoral" just keep doin' what you're doin' ^_^

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    • ctbpdx

      Finally, someone sees that all the 'Eww, your sister?' stuff is crap! ~_^ Who cares? It's just a social 'rule' passed down for thousands of years, based on personal opinions. Amen, brutha. :P

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      • The_Gnome

        It is to krep them safe from others that people say that, to save them from the comments... and where it leads to sodemy/incest, to protect them from having deformed children that could hurt them irrepairably

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  • Sexual touching? Making out? What is this? Can I have some english subtitles, please? Who talks like this? I stopped talking like that after middle school.

    Do you put your tongue or your penis into any opening on her body? Is there moisture involved? Moaning? Anyone screaming "I'm gonna cum!!!"? If not you're not even close to "sexual touching". Most people have more "sexual touching" with their grandma than what you're talking about.

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    • ZOR69

      MAKING OUT IS A VERY INEXACT EXPRESSION. IT USUALLY MEANS NON-COITAL SEXUAL ACTIVITY, LIKE FOREPLAY, MUTUAL MASTURBATION, EVEN ORAL SEX. BUT IT CAN SOMETIMES INCLUDE GOING ALL THE WAY. SPOONING IN BED WOULD DEFINITELY INVOLVE SEXUAL TOUCHING AS THE GENITALS ARE IN CLOSE PROXIMITY, MERE INCHES AWAY FROM ACTUAL INTERCOURSE. MAKING OUT TO ORGASM IS FINE, BUT JUST GETTING EACH OTHER ALL HOT AND BOTHERED AND STOPPING - THAT WOULD SEEM HIGHLY FRUSTRATING TO ME. PARENTS THAT ALLOW THEIR KIDS TO ENGAGE IN SUCH BEHAVIOR MUST BE VERY OPEN-MINDED. I KNOW MY WIFE'S PARENTS WERE, DESPITE BEING CHURCHY CHRISTIANS. THEY LET THEIR KIDS DO JUST ABOUT ANYTHING, EXCEPT SURE DID NOT WANT THE BOYS TO CUM INSIDE HER. BUT... IT HAPPENED!

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      • The_Gnome

        ALL OF A SUDDEN CAPS LOCK MAKES PEOPLE WANNA READ!!!! No it pisses people off, please try to use it to make certain WORDS more important no whole pages!!!

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  • bewmbox

    Screw what these other guys said, thats so hawt.

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  • joliegems

    My brother and I are the same ages and I barf in my mouth a little just thinking about us like that.

    It is NOT normal.

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  • doddeman

    It is a beautiful thing you and your sister have togheter. There are too little love and affection in the world. Do not mind what the otner comments say!

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  • bg922

    i wish i could do my sis

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  • Boundary issues: you 2 are not really clear where the line is and are looking at it through other peoples eyes.

    Time for you and sis to have a talk about your emotions for one another and where that line is in physical contact.

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  • jstawhai

    Hugging is fine, but making out with her is just wrong.

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  • Leziath

    Do what you want as long it's consensual all round, you aren't cheating on anyone, everyone involved is adult and you don't bring any inbred kids into the world.

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  • red678

    I think you both want to have sex

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  • justmetalking

    My guess is this is just someone trolling, but giving you the benefit of the doubt, my opinion is there is nothing wrong with what you are doing. If you are sick and your sister snuggles up next to you that is just sweet and caring. My only concern is for the other people in your lives. This emotional bond you have may be threatening to them. That being said, I doubt it would take much more than a fight with either of you and your significant others, a bottle of wine and some alone time before you had sex.

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  • LA_Woman

    Sorry all you so-called progressive thinkers, but I don't think it's normal either.

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  • KatieLiz

    Ugh. This isn't taboo idiots, it goes against the basic genetic code of our species. Survival of the fittest. Interbreeding means the kids would be fucked up. I know a pair of cousins who married and can testify that this us true, both of their kids are fucked.
    OP, whilst I think pecking and spooning is fine (although I wouldn't with my brother) anything more than that needs knocking on the head.

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  • Alesandro

    You are mad you have to complate ıt like me and my sis we have sex and make love ıf u want know more my facebook ıs: kuros greanday

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  • BOOYA333

    Ewww

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  • LordBlackwood

    it all depends on what he means by spooning lol lots of terms out there for it

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  • nyrhtak

    If u know your just brother and sister or even friends it means NOTHING whatso ever

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  • sparrowfeed

    i don't know.. that doesn't seem too bad.
    it's not like you guys had sex or anything.

    and making out.. i made out with my cousin once when we were like 12. Lol. i don't think that's weird.

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  • Ashcash

    i don't find that normal but maybe it's because my brother and i don't even hug eachother nevertheless make out.

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  • alchemist2

    dude, that's sick!!!!

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    • Either go all the way and have sex with her or knock it off completely. I'm not for having sex with my sister but if I was in your situation, I bet the idea would be there. You are doing everything she would want in a relationship without sex and honestly, you are getting nothing out of it.

      If you sleep with her, there you go and at least you got something out of it. However, if the idea is at all creapy to you, then knock it off and stay with your wife and stop being "intimate" with your sister.

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  • Did it all da time with my sister

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  • ew. any one who says its ok must not have any brothers or sisters ir else you would know how gross that is

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  • fucking sick fucks.

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  • BrentGaspar

    Well to the fundamental Christian that improperly brought up the incest argument: it's not, he did not mention any form of sexual intercourse.

    dick.

    I'm quite impressed with the progressivist attitudes of many of the comments.

    As long as you're happy, and she's happy as well.

    If it goes too far and either of you feel as if you are in over your heads, it might be time too stop.

    -Brent-

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    • Hey genius - read the title at least before you insult people - sexual touching between a brother & sister is incest, you git.

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  • orbitgumchewer

    the peck on the lips as a greeting is fine.. but you guys used to make out? Ok that sounds a little off.. but as long as the two you understand the brother/sister love is just that, then really there is not much to worry about. It's good you guys have a strong relationship like that. What I am wondering is that by you just mentioning this on here, do you ever have thoughts of something more happening? If thats the case, then you should realize that's not right.. but hey, it just sounds to me that you guys are close.

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  • Isolated

    It's okay for you and your sister to show caring affection to each other, but sometimes there might be a time where you may cross the line and believe that affection might go to the next level. Just know that someday if you imagine sexual thoughts about your sister, you may have to back off for a while.

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  • sidknee

    "...but her boyfriend dont." It has already begun! XD retardedness... pay attention to the grammer there.

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  • FreeStyle786

    Maybe if you were young and curious I could understand. But your in your 20's and 30's! It would be fine if it was just brother/sisterly love but it sounds like its more than just that. Thinking about me and my sister doing something like that crosses my head as wrong. Its a boundary.

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  • afleyx

    yeahhh, you two are a bit fucked up. you both know there is a line and you both cross it juuuust a little, and no one has done anything to stop you from doing otherwise when you were younger, so you keep doing it and pushing the line a little bit further.
    either get help or stop seeing each other... unless you're hicks and you want to have your kids grow up with a fucked up mindset.

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  • awatcher

    This is immoral, illegal and called incest. Stop it now. Get help pls.

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  • Ew!!! Spooning withyour sister

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  • maacri

    1 Question..

    Does your dick pop up during this?
    If yes, you have to make some decisions

    If No, its just the beginning.. you have to wait untill it become a problem!!

    Bu Ha Ha Ha...

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  • zripper10

    ...Disgusting. Through your eyes it maybe not but... EWW. It is illegal and immoral. Can't you just like... get some lotion and tissues to satisfy your sexual needs? lol SERIOUSLY

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  • bjmc

    i fuck my sister

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  • Filthee

    okay; not the same, but similar example, me and my brothers girlfriend, she is 19, i am 20, my brother is 25. me and her get along like best friends, she sits on my lap, hugs me and kisses my forehead, we often drop joke lesbian love and
    shes often all over me when she drinks, which is
    bad, because, it's my brothers girlfriend, although she is like that with everyone, too touchy, flirty, over the top, but sometimes i
    get weary because i think my brother thinks
    were getting "too close"..i'm sorry i forgot
    where i was going with this. lesbian sex. mmm.

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    • The_Gnome

      Tht doesnt help this situation... but dont stop *drool* ;P

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  • normalitis

    thats a good thing really. nuthin wrong with it. but when ur in a family reunion or something dont be makin out or holding hands cuz i saw two siblings like that before and its annoying. its good that u dont make out anymore, but feel free to kiss her on the lips. hell angelina jolie did it. so its cool. 100%% normal. makes life a lot better.

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  • DrunkOnApathy

    its not just a social rule though is it? survival of the fittest- it goes against that in the sense that you'd pass on the worst genes to your offspring, as you both will have more common alleles than if you widened the gene pool by finding a non-relative so even if you both aren't mutated your children would be as they pick up both alleles from each parent making it a dominant allele. so, incest isn't just a social rule because people think it's gross, it's wrong because it would screw up most the human race as they'd be disabled or disfigured. If you knew anything about science you'd know that.

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    • direspore

      it is just a social rule now tho. we have birth control. if there was a new rule just saying 'you can't have children together' then i'd agree with that.

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      • The_Gnome

        But birth control doesnt always 100% work, and it may encourage them anyway they feel to greatly to bother... or just plain forget

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  • okayokay

    making out with your sibling is not normal. it's taboo. sorry.

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  • nematoad

    The only bad part is that it sucks for your finance.

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  • jstawhai

    ewww

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  • JOHN000

    yh this is fine one time i stayed at my uncles when i was 12 and my cousin was 17 and had nice perky tits and i masturbated over them before, that night she took a shower and i know that there was hole in spare room built in wardrobe where you could see into the bath room so i looked through it and i was like super hard and was going to masturbate so i walk over to my bed and striped naked, by then i could hear my cousin coming out of the bath room but she came straight into my room and turned and locked the door, she looked at me for about 5 minutes and then she dropped her towel, her boobs where so nice and she had a landing strip which lead to her tight pussy. She grabbed my dick and she started rubbing it and spiting on it she told me not to worry and that she was OK with me watching her, by then i had already cumed on her hand but she didn't stop. She then proceeded to kiss my body and she bent down and sucked my dick i came twice in her mouth, for some unknown reason she chocked on my dick she was deep throating it and stuff but back then my dick wasn't that big! She then asked me if i liked her tits i wasn't going to lie and i said yes she then grabbed me and pulled me down to my knees and she then tit wanked me, but she wasn't done there she asked if i would like her to sleep in the room with me i said yes and cumed one last time as she "finished me off" by now i had already cumed 11 times and was going to cum and another 13 times, she told my uncle that i was scared and that i wanted her to sleep in there, she then re entered the room she locked the door again and jumped on me and sort pined me to the bed she kissed my body for 10 minutes and then told me to do the same on her body so i got on top and kissed her belly and then stop, she sort of giggled and then told me where to kiss her slowly she lead me down to her pussy, she told me to then to come face to face with her and she kissed me and she stuck her tongue down my throat after 30 minutes (i swear to god it was 30 minutes) she pulled it out and said she like the way i taste i had cumed 2 more times through that, she then told me to do what she just did but on her pussy and i went down (kissing her body again) i put me lips to her pussy and shoved my tongue down she moaned and groaned and tapped me on the head about 12 times before she cumed i was shocked as she was when i made her cum but she just told me that i was first person to ever make her do that and she then grabbed me and snogged me i had cum 6 times through that (the bed was covered in my cum but so was her insides i had cumed in my cousin 7 times cuz some times while i was licking her out she made me tell her when i was going to cum and then put my dick in her mouth). I then asked if i could stick it in her (by now i was mega horny and i always wanted to fucked her) , she giggled and and nodded i slowing inserted it and while i did that i came another 2 times and after i was fully in i didn't know what to do so asked for help and she slowly pushed and then pulled my body and she told me to do the same motion so i fucked her it lasted for 15 minutes and then i exploded inside her (and i dont mean to brag but i made her moan and beg for more) i then asked if i could put it in her arse and she blushed and said she never had it there this made super hard and i begged if i could after so many no's i grabbed her and shoved my tongue down her throat she then pushed me off her mouth and moaned i had made her cum again and she then bite her lip and nodded so i went to stick it in and she stopped me and told me i need to lube it a bit cuz most arses are tight i know what lube was (only because my brother told me) and asked if she had any and she said no so i sighed and said that means i cant stick it in your arse she then giggled and said you really want this don't you and then she pulled me up and sucked my dick till i cumed again she then wiped her lips and said to stick it in quick so i shoved it in and she was right it was bloody tight! i made her moan so bad and she was begging for me as i slowly thrusted back and forth she kept on shouting faster i had to keep on tell her to shut up because my uncle was in bed and we didn't want to get court so after about 10 minutes i exploded again and then she grabed me and then proceed to snog me she was then back on top and whispered my turn and she kissed my body and sucked my dick she told me to tell her when i was about to cum so i did and she stoped and started kissing me again until she know that i wasnt going to cum so early and then sat on my dick and moved so fast i lasted 18 minutes that time and exploded again she then layed me and we stay up together just snoging and tonguing each over. Now im 19 years old and me and my cousin are super close we also fucked on my 16 birthday but thats a another story. I know this was long and if you read it all then bloody well done :) but to all the people that say this is wrong it isn't and if u say this was rape because i was only 12 and she was 17 i wanted as well and so what if i had sex and the age of 12.

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  • GA25FF

    HOT!

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  • Thewomanizer

    I think the spooning and pecks on lips is fine, there are however boundaries between siblings which should not be crossed obviously cause then it would be classed as incest!
    making out is deffinately not right especially if your older and aware of what it is your engaging in, otherwise parents should be keeping a close on on their children and advising them on whats acceptable and whats not.

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  • gaby123

    freak.

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  • MistaPhilz

    Wow I just realized that I over used the "..." Thing... oh well
    Awwwwww I did it again.

    : P

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  • MistaPhilz

    Dude, your parents are okay with this if i did this with my sister (not attracted to her but if it did happen...) my parents would.. I don't even know what my parents would do, but it wouldn't be good.

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    • The_Gnome

      No-one said anything about them being OK with it, more like... they turn the other cheek. which, being thr case he shud stop for it is obviously hurting their parents. :‘(

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  • rain

    Idk. But does it matter how old u look?!

    Not hurting anyone...have at it

    Normal...no

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  • UnderDogg

    well I guess your not hurting anyone, so keep it up I guess.

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  • heather49

    I don't think that having a reationship with your sister is wrong, but having other people too... maybe it is too much don't you think?

    Are your mates o.k. with it?

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  • God,you're children must be retarded.

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  • nothing2

    thats another thing

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  • assen

    ouch, ima have to say that this is completely not fucken normal. thats like, angelina jolie and her brother, its gross dude.

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  • abbygale96

    incest is can and cannot be normal. all depends on where you come from.

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  • cal27615

    It's taboo, I used to fondle my older sister When I was fifteen and she seventeen. I was dorky with no sexual outlet and an insane libido! She was a heavy sleeper and especially when I new she came home after drinking with friends, I could practically strip her without her waking up. I remember being really surprised how easily my two fingers just glided right into her pussy. I remember her Puffy young nipples like it was yesterday. I cringe at the thought now, but then it felt very natural for me. I Used to steal my friends sisters and mom's panties from the hamper and most of the time the gusset was still steamy wet, as they would change out for bed before I would be sent home...good times!

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    • Thewomanizer

      thats just totally unjust and sick, now thats what is called INCEST

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    • Kai'Layah

      wow. are you like serious? or is this a joke??

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