My teacher is more than my teacher to me

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Is it normal : That I Look At My Teacher More Than A Teacher ??? I don't look at her in a sexual way or anything crazy like that . I look at her more like someone i want to care for me. She's always there for me and i love that she's always there to tlk to me . She notices when i'm having a bad day . I Love He So Much and she tells me she loves me But i want her to always love me even if i act up in her classroom . I have developed a really tight bond with her , i use to crave for her attention but now its better , i dont do that anymore . I am graduating soon and i want to continue to keep in touch with her but idk if she would give me her phone number . I know that i'm not going to see her after i graduate because i'm moving outside of the country and i know i will miss her so very much . Is It Normal That I Wish I Can Keep A Friendship With My Teacher After I Graduate ?? I Love Her So Much . is it normal That I Don't Look At Her As A Teacher ; I look at her more like a caregiver ?

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  • hplover121
    12 years ago

    I personally think it's normal. After all, it is part of a teacher's job to take care of students. However, I think my answer comes from my own background. I've always been really close to my English teacher from my junior year of high school. She was, and still is, like a mother to me. We developed a really close bond. Since you said she feels the same about you, I don't see the harm in keeping in touch with her. Go ahead, ask her for her number. Don't lose touch with someone who carwa about you.

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    • flashed_out17
      12 years ago

      Thanks I Sort Of Feel Tht Way About My Teacher . Our Bond Is So Tight And I Wouldn't Want Anything To Happen To Our Friendship .

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  • flashed_out17
    12 years ago

    Thanks , I really should stop worring about it and enjoy the bond we both share .

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  • 61508
    12 years ago

    It's not really normal, but it's not weird either. That just means you're one of the luckyy people who have a close bond with their teachers.

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  • alv1592
    12 years ago

    Well, are there any rules against teachers and students keeping in touch through e-mail, phone calls, etc.? If not, I see no reason why you shouldn't mention that to her, because like you said nothing inappropriate is going on. It just sounds like she's a mother figure. If she doesn't give you her e-mail/phone number, don't worry. You mentioned you'll be moving, so most likely you won't see her again. Good luck to you.

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    • flashed_out17
      12 years ago

      yea , thanks !

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  • Peace_hope_love
    12 years ago

    Same with me(:

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    • flashed_out17
      12 years ago

      cool . it's good to find people more like me(:

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  • flashed_out17
    12 years ago

    thanks

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  • ManGuy
    12 years ago

    awwww <3333

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  • jellyboob69
    12 years ago

    My teachers more than that too, I follow the bible and the teacher is also my lord and saviour jesus Christ our lord amen x

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    • flashed_out17
      12 years ago

      Jesus Is A Great Teacher !!! Better Than Anyone Of My Teachers That I Had In School .

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      • Dad
        12 years ago

        jesus?

        Well there's goes another intelligent conversation.
        That's Great That You Love jeSUS.
        But sadly he's not actually real, someone had to tell you, may as well be me.
        Good luck anyway.

        "Jesus Is A Great Teacher" ?? Oh that's funny, I'm going to remember that one to tell my kids, we like having a laugh together.

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        • flashed_out17
          12 years ago

          Hmmmmm , Well We Are Entitled To Our Own Opinions And I Believe He Is REAL(:

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          • Dad
            12 years ago

            They took jesus 'teachings' out of school a long time ago.

            The reason why 'jesus was NOT a great teacher' to our children, was because the teachings were so counter productive they were seen as unlearning. Children literally became more ignorant or stupid minded, due to religious instruction.

            By the way, religious 'education' is a new church terminology, brought out about the same time it was banished from schools.
            It had always be known originally as 'Instruction', since they were telling the kids NOT educating them.

            True story, this is known fact now.

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            • [Old Memory]
              12 years ago

              i love u can u b my dad hehe

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        • shaddowgrl92
          12 years ago

          Whether or not the biblical depication of Jesus is fact or fiction is up for debate. However, he was a real person. There are historical records outside of the Biblical accounts that confirm his existence, ie. the records of Flavius Josephus...

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          • Dad
            12 years ago

            The name 'Jesus' is still common in the Middle east (where Jesus was born)

            I agree there have been some intelligent and great things happened from the Middle east over the last 2000 years, but generally the Middle East would have to be the MOST barbaric backward thinking people of the entire world.
            Girls can get married at 12 to 50yo, and this is their legal right! Anyway there's just way too many things to mention. Let alone the fact they love to blow themselves up because they get 6 virgins when they die or some rubbish.
            OH, and yes 'Jesus' was born to this magical fairytale land too. How sweet. Does it say in that scripture if he raped many women? They probably left that part out hey.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Hi! I am a student too and I have a teacher that approached via facebook before even see me! I love her more than everyone in my life after some months of knowing her! She loves me very very much.. I dont know how to explain that but we look exactly the same..Our faces, our facial features and our characters are exactly the same..I started thinking that I may be adopted and she may be my mother.. However I love her more than everyone in that world!

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    • Softballstar0126
      12 years ago

      Thats the same with me and my teacher!! But i was lucky and found out she was my biological mother. My dad got fully custody of me when i was born. We are very close now though.

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    • flashed_out17
      12 years ago

      thats so sweet . maybe you should play around with her and ask her is she your mother . i wish i could facebook friends my teacher but i will wait until i graduate .

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      • [Old Memory]
        12 years ago

        Yeah it is! No chance I cant ask her straight forward! I am afraid..

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        • flashed_out17
          12 years ago

          ask you family are you adopted .

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  • Dad
    12 years ago

    You have obviously seen that old 1967 (but good) movie; To Sir With Love?
    Yes you can form a caring and love for your teacher, but the teacher must ALWAYS stick to the schools rules, and the law.
    Once you leave school I can't see why you couldn't stay in contact, but whilst at school (and learning) you are a student only.

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    • flashed_out17
      12 years ago

      Of Course she sticks to the school rules . Thats why i look up to her and wants to be a great teacher like her . When i'm in her class she shows no favortism towards . In fact it seems like she dont have anything to do with me , but outside of class we are the best of friends

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      • Dad
        12 years ago

        Look it all sounds good, and I see that you are both sensible and mature about this.
        But, just wanted to clear up one thing in your comment, the teacher student rules of conduct ALSO extend outside of school hours. Your teacher will know this.

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        • flashed_out17
          12 years ago

          Of course . I Never See He Outside of school . I just see her outside of my class period , like at lunch . My teacher will never do anything to loose her job even if that means cutting me off . but us being close i see no harm in our friendship because she shows no favortism , and nothing inappropriate is going on .

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          • Dad
            12 years ago

            So have you seen that movie "To Sir With Love"?
            I know your is about a female teacher, but it has similarities to your situation.

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  • pem24
    12 years ago

    Is yours teaching English? I wonder why all stories I hear from most of the guys have crushes on English teachers???

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    • flashed_out17
      12 years ago

      No , She's NOT My English Teacher . She Teaches Math . And I'm A Girl , I Don't Have A Crush On Her . I Just Love Her As An Extention To My Family As Someone I Look Up Too .

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  • SwimBikeRun
    12 years ago

    As long as you're realistic about your expectations. To keep in touch with a teacher via emails or letters is nice. It's nice if you are able to ask her advice, etc. But to see her as a caregiver is a little odd and out of the typical teacher student relationship range. I'd just make sure your expectations are realistic.

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