My twin sister bathes with the little boy we babysit.

God no! You need to tell this kid's parents. Your sibling is in the wrong.

this is lunacy. She needs counseling and needs to stop to stop or you need to talk to the parents about it and show them proof of what is going on. I would be appalled if I was his mother.

The whole situation sounds weird to me. A 13-year-old isn't really a little boy in my opinion. He doesn't need to be babied anymore. He can shower/bathe himself, and shouldn't need to be cuddled. At 13, a boy is going through puberty and his hormones are going crazy. Sex is on his mind. I think this kid's perception of reality is gonna be all screwed up.

So, yes this needs to stop. YOU have to take control of the situation here because it doesn't sound like anybody else will. If you have to report your sister, then do it because it's the right thing to do. The best thing you can do for him is start teaching him to take care of himself.

I'm sorry but I don't find this to be normal. Especially given her and his ages. It really just isn't appropriate. I'm pretty sure if I was a parent of this child and found this out, I would be livid.

This is not normal.The poor lad is being emotionaly scarred. I think you should give your sister a nice hot stop-this-shit-right-now slap.

What's with half the fucking words blacked out?

Nothing about this is normal one bit. It's NOT normal for a 17 year old to bathe naked with a 12 year old. Period. If the genders were swapped in this scenario, holy hell, people would be raining hatred and contempt down upon both of you. The sleeping together and cuddling needs to stop too.

Unless you want this to continue and/or get MUCH worse VERY soon (if it isn't already worse than you even know), you should tell someone immediately. 'Getting everyone into trouble' is the least of concerns here... You know it's wrong, and so does she.

To the cunts that say this isn't abnormal...you're delusional...the mere fact that she even NEEDS to "cuddle" with this 12yo like its a drug and needs to slowly be let off of contact is weird...at 12 a boy is sexually active and she is an adult...just replace the girl with a man in this case and you'll have a totally different tune...so why the fuck is it ok??!

Ok so your sister is 18, turning 19 soon, and the kid is 13 (soon) so he's like in middle school I'm guessing...? Anyways, he should be old enough to take care of himself, and bathe by himself without drowning lol. It is pretty sketchy for your sis to bathe with him, naked too, and sleep or cuddle sometimes, that's basically near pedophilia if I'm exaggerating. He should have a good mind set to see that what is happening here is wrong for him and your sister. She Could go to jail or a long lecture on ages and baths with pre teens lol.
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Not normal...and there is inevitable damage done anyways. The right thing to do is not let this prolong and continue to question it, but to tell his parents, or yours about it. Is he ill? Like a deformation or handicap condition he has? Because if so, this might make sense on why you guys choose to bathe him haha. I know long read, sorry but this is too sketchy.

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Call the police or CPS. (CPS protects minors up until eighteen.)

I have a few different thoughts. Firstly, I've worked with kids and teens in a 24hr setting for many years. Some may disagree, but a 12 year old boy IS getting sexual satisfaction from being bathed the situation. Both parties may be completely innocent, but it is still happening to some degree. Some have brought up the point that in some cultures its normal, not sexual, etc, but the fact is, in the U.S., your sister can be considered a sex offender. What happens if she gets into an argument with him, and he tells to get back at her? or uses it as blackmail?
There is a thing called mandatory reporting. This means that when certain people even have a hint this is happening, however innocent, they are required to report it to CPS.
The main point is that having knowledge of the laws, she needs to know that there could be jail time, and her being added to the Sex Offenders list for the rest of her life. This can happen even if his parents don't have a problem with it.

Call the police

First: stop the jelous thing. ( a little bit going on)
Second: yeah its weird. A young boy of soon to be 13 doesn't need a women of 18 to sleep next to him. Im sure nothing sinister is happining but i think they both need to understand the responsibilty of what you are intrusted with. Maybe you should try to treat him like a young man and maybe try some xbox or board games (risk, monopoly) etc. Something fun is good for all

He's about old enough to not need a sitter, unless his parents don't trust him enough to leave him home alone. Anyway this all sounds really weird. What do you mean by 'she embraces him in bed'? Like, cuddling under the covers? That doesn't seem right.

He's almost 13, you say? He's gonna be thinking about girls soon. Unless he's gay, but you know what I mean, he's not gonna be a little boy forever. Still doesn't mean your sister should be nude with him though.

That's messed up.

You know if this was a man...she's almost 18 so yes the news would call him a man...he would be charged with pedophilia and all these comments would have a hole different tune. It sucks the double standard of society.
As for the situation...its FUCKED...get your pervert sister away from that kid and get her some help. Or atleast talk to her and ask her why she does what she does. If it doesn't stop you must tell your parents atleast.

With this i will be hated by the hole IIN community but someone really needs to express the situation beyond the basic social concepts and legislation.

Let's see the boy's perspective. He is 12-13 yo and bathes with a naked girl. You can't use "wrong", "molestation", "abuse" or anything like that. The boy is having the time of his life and it will stay as one of his greatest memories. You can't ruin that boy's moment. My 13 yo self would have killed anyone that wanted to take this kind of luck away and you should let him be. Also, you should leave your sister alone with this matter. Is her choice, her doing, if things go wrong is her problem not yours. She might think is cute, she might be teasing him, it might be the taboo-ish thing that gets her going, there might be touching or masturbation involved or they might have sex someday, but, all in all, is your sisters choice, not your or our business and she should be left alone.

And please people, don't start with traumas and early exposure to sexual content. I managed to fap daily since i was 11 without the internet and, this generation, well, they know and they fap to a lot more content that is in easy reach. They know a lot, there is no way we can hide from it. They simply know, are curious, they want to discuss it, to learn more, to do it and with or without a 17 yo in the bathtub, he was and it will be exposed to a lot of content, by his own choice with no trauma involved.

Results after your sister's actions with this boy? A happy girl, a happy, very happy or extremely epic happy boy that will NOT be traumatised ever by something like this. Boys are not traumatised and boys are not raped/abused, they just enjoy every moment and have sex with the so cald "rapist/abuser".

You can hate me now, but i'm doing both parties a favor, especially to that boy.

There's a key statement everyone seems to have missed. The boy approached the male twin to ask if he was going to bathe him and cuddle afterwards. That sounds to me as if the boy is gay. If so, I doubt he got much stimulation from the twin sister's activities. Here's what I suggest:

1. Tell your sister that what she did is wrong, that there are to be no compromises, and that you will report her to YOUR parents (not the boy's at first) if she does it again.

2. Ask the boy casually whether he prefers that your sister babysit him by indicating that you may start dating more. But tell him you will try to rearrange your dating schedule if he wants you to continue babysitting him. That should give you a bit of an idea of whether he really wants your sister or you which will be a bit of an indication of how much he liked being bathed by her vs. how gay he might be.

Has the boy ever asked you again if you would bathe him?

I think you should tell your Sister to STOP it or she could go to prison and I don't think would like that.
The next time you n only you babysit the boy n tell him that it's not right what your sister is doing to him, I think you should even tell the boys parents that you think your sister doing something wrong with their son.
Just be Honest about what has been going on and I think the parents will respect you for being honest.

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He's 13???!!! Yes, your sister is being VERY inappropriate! If he was, like, four it would be sort of weird, but maybe not damaging. This kid is technically a teenager. This is sexual. He probably couldn't believe his luck when your sister got naked with him. He might be trying to act all cute and innocent just to prompt her to do this more. Definitely tell his parents what your sister did, even if it might cost you your babysitting job.

I dont understand why you blacked out the name instead of just you know replacing it with something else. Maybe just use a pronoun. Also mothers bathing with children is not an abnormal thing. I heard of parents bathing with the children before. No not everyone does it but your sister might might just view it as bonding. Just like when you bath a baby in the sink. Some people just see it as bonding not nothing sexual. This is not as abnormal as you think...

its not normal and neither is you blacking out the words when you can just change the name or avoid it sorry to say .

████ is probably already corrupted. But, your sister needs to find a new boyfriend her own age, get in bed naked with him and have sex. Then it will be easier for her to leave ████ alone.

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I dunno, man. Just ask her to stop. Are u identical?

He doesn't seem to mind so she's not forcing him into anything. Your sis is comfortable with it all and so is he, so no one is getting hurt. If you're not comfortable doing that with him, just let him know it's not for you, just your sister.
How old are you and your sis now?