My vagina seems loose at age 25
I never had sex, and I somt often check down there but it looks very dry and loose. I'm a virgin, I dont drink as much water as I used to. Is this causing it ?
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I never had sex, and I somt often check down there but it looks very dry and loose. I'm a virgin, I dont drink as much water as I used to. Is this causing it ?
I'm a guy who's seen his fair share of vagina in his 30 years of life so far, and from the information I have gathered along the way, not one woman's vagina looks the same as another woman's.
I don't think you should be too worried or overly sensitive about what your own vagina looks like. Some vaginas are puffy like a peach, some are tucked up like a hamburger, and some have inner labia which hang like a wind chime. They're all perfectly normal.
If you're worried about your health because of dryness, consult a gynaecologist.
Inner labia hanging from the middle is disgusting, I'd never eat a chick out with that
It's perfectly normal for that to be the case for some women though. I personally don't think any woman should be shamed about any of their own personal characteristics which they have no control over.
It may be a turn off for you and that's fine, but you shouldn't be labelling certain women "disgusting" just because they happen to have a big flappy vulva. It doesn't automatically follow that they'd be a total whore.
Some women naturally have looser vaginas than others. I have been with some older and sluttier women with extremely tight vaginas. Then I've been with other girls, like my wife, that arent very tight despite being with less men. It's a misconception that looser girls took more dick. Even if you're not very tight you are still going to feel good for a man. And if it concerned you that much you can do kegal exercises.
My favorite vaginas are the strong ones conditioned by daily kegel exercises. Rhythmic squeezing of your partner's penis will make him eagerly ejaculate almost involuntarily. Don't worry about dryness. A small bottle of personal lubricant from the chemist's shop will make the guy's cock deliciously slippery.
Everyones vagina is different, just like every mens dick is different. Some are looser than others and contrary to popular belief you cannot get loose, it always goes back to its natural size again.
You should probably have sex with somebody, abstinence can be really boring.
"and I somt often check down there"
I commend you on your honesty that led to you reconsider what you were writing as you did so. 😁
I also think it's great that you're looking at yourself "down there"; far too many women are too squeamish to do that.
I don't have a vagina, but I've been a close acquaintance of a few, and I can't quite understand how one can _look_ "dry and loose". Are we talking post-apocalypse three-lane highway tunnel with tumbleweed blowing through dry and gaping?
Vaginas should always be at least a little damp and very moist when sexually aroused, but lots of things can affect vaginal lubrication. As for "loose", what does that mean? At your age and having never had a child, you should have reasonable pelvic floor muscle tone, but that doesn't mean your vagina should be completely closed. Tugging on your labia to examine yourself will obviously open it a little.
In any case, this really isn't the place to get serious, well-informed information on topics like this, so maybe a Google search would lead you to more helpful sites.
Yay its youu! You're always giving great, well informed advice! Well I mean it seems dry, the labia seems to crease easily when I touch it, and seems loose as in not firm labia?? Hard to explain, I dont feel it looks right..like I have dried out ? I know I have bad anxiety and dont drink enough water ?
I have looked down there in past but cant remember it being loose lips. I feel it doesnt seem right
You know your lady-bits better than anyone else ever can, so if you feel something has changed, then that opinion has to be respected.
I'm not a gynaecologist and have no medical qualifications at all, but for what it's worth, some thoughts occur.
I have no idea if reduced water consumption can affect vaginal lubrication, but since it's mucosal tissue, I'd assume you'd only see a difference there if you were so dehydrated that your mouth was dry too.
The labia usually become engorged to some degree during sexual arousal because there's increased blood flow to your genitals. It's a wild guess, but I can see how if you've just not been interested in solo sex recently or if some other factor has stopped you from giving your foo-foo the amount of attention it's been used to, then the appearance might alter.
I understand that many women experience some changes in the appearance of their external genitals as they go through their monthly cycle and that this is also due to increasing and decreasing blood flow to the pelvis. I note that you say you're not having sex, but I wonder if you're taking hormones for some reason other than contraception, or if some other factor has upset your natural hormonal levels.
You also say you're dealing with anxiety. My understanding is that some medications for that can have an effect on libido, and it's not a stretch to see how that might indirectly affect how your labia appear because of a reduction in total blood flow due to nothing much ever arousing you.
It seems to me that the bottom line is that as long as there's no unusual bleeding, no pain or strange lumps and bumps appearing, and no other weird symptoms that might be hormone related, then you should try not to worry about this too much. Like all the rest of us, what you see down there is what you've got. And like everyone else, the best you can do is accept it.
The appearance of women's vulvas varies hugely, and you can be pretty confident that what you see is in the range of what's normal.
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Thanks very much, very insightful!! I am not on hormones, nor on any medications. I do belive my labia used to be plumper and not so easily creased. It kinda looks old and when I touch it, it sinks in, it isn't firm sorta thing ? :/
Excellent collage pictures. As an aside comment, my favorite vaginas are the spermy ones.
Rock on, ladies. 👍
My 73 year old vagina isn't "fishy" and it's still tight because I do kegel exercises most days. It did get very dry during menopause: is it possible you're having a very early menopause?
If I were you I'd be having my hormone levels checked: if that's the cause you can have your doctor prescribe vaginal oestregen cream.
I'm so lucky my wifes looks better than all of those. I like when the labia is too small to even see and she has a bit of camel toe.