My wife forbids me from drawing other women

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I love drawing semi-realistic stuff for fun as a hobby. My wife gets jealous and insecure when she knows I draw some random women on the internet so she forbids me from doing so. I am allowed to draw everything but women. I think she sees it as a form of potential cheating. However, what she or everybody around me doesn't know is that I am actually gay. I keep my actual sexuality a secret because people don't take LGBT too kindly from where I live. She doesn't know I actually enjoy drawing men more than women so I find it funny that her jealousy towards other women is pointless.

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  • allialli
    1 year ago

    I think her being jealous over that is dumb, but what's even worse is that you're hiding the fact that you don't really love her from her. You need to be honest with her, it's not funny! The sooner you tell her and get it over with the better.

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  • ospry
    1 year ago

    Are you happy with her? I know it's possible to love someone you're not sexually attracted to. If you're happy with her and content to stay, that's great. If not, would you face any danger if you were to come out where you are?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      1 year ago

      Other than her getting insecure and jealous, she's a great and loving person. I love her but she'll never know that I don't enjoy sex with woman. I won't let her know my actual sexual orientation because I don't want to break her heart. Yes, it's very dangerous if people here knew what gender I am actually attracted to.

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      • ospry
        1 year ago

        I'm really sorry for how intolerant and vicious people can be. I'm glad you care for your wife and that it sounds like you two are happy together. You've managed to create something good out of a dangerous and precarious situation and that's quite an achievement!

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        • Iambillythemenacetosociety
          1 year ago

          That first sentence is hypocritical. You're loaded.

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          • ospry
            1 year ago

            I can be an asshole sometimes, and when I am I usually regret it. That doesn't invalidate my first sentence though. I meant it and mean it, even if I'm included among the intolerant and vicious people

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            • Iambillythemenacetosociety
              1 year ago

              If you are no better than these "vicious and intolerant people", it does. Hate to break it to you.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    1 year ago

    So she's a control freak about your art and you're a liar that's been leading her on. Neither of you are normal. XD

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      1 year ago

      I don't agree with her jealousy but other than that she's very nice. We love each other but I just can't enjoy the 'having sex' part. So you want me to tell her the truth despite the society I live in where LGBT isn't accepted? They'll alienate me for life if one person ever finds out about my secret. This is not fucking America. Get off your holier than thou attitude and try to live in my place.

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      • r34
        1 year ago

        You don't have to tell her. I think you should just keep drawing hot men because that's what I like. It's a shame that she doesn't let you draw other women, but men are attractive too. I like looking at r34 drawings of my favorite characters. Sorry if this sounded too perverted, I'm just telling you what I honestly think

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      • Cuntsiclestick
        1 year ago

        Yeah, your country's circumstance is no excuse. If you're gay and can't have a guy, leading someone on is still wrong. If you really don't make enough money to move, just stay single. Dragging someone into a web of lies is wrong.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          1 year ago

          What a load of bullshit. Typical attitude and advice coming from a holier than thou american. Stop giving advice as if every society works like in fucking America. Just because I am gay and don't truly enjjoy the sex part, that doesn't mean I don't love her from other perspectives. Not sure how your country works but in my country, there will be a bleak future when that person is old if he decided to be single forever.

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  • Curiouskitten444
    1 year ago

    Damn plot twist

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  • profanity
    1 year ago

    What use do gay men have for a wife?

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    • ospry
      1 year ago

      Sadly, usually just for keeping up appearances so they don't get mistreated for their orientation

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        1 year ago

        I love how you seem to be the only one here who understands that I can't come out as easily as people here expect it to be, lol. It's like these people here think every places in this world is as accepting of LGBT like fucking America or something along the line so they're pissed that I am lying to people around me regarding my sexual orientation. I know better than letting myself gets hated on and alienated by the society around me.

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        • ospry
          1 year ago

          There's no shortage of troll posts or insincere questions on this site. Those are usually pretty easy to pick out because they'll usually contain some details that are just too far-fetched to be believed. There's nothing about your question that seems disingenuous, so it's weird that people would insist it's fake

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  • Tinybird
    1 year ago

    You can draw whatever tf you want. If I were you, I'd draw more pictures of women secretly just cause I can.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      1 year ago

      I still draw woman if I felt like it. Just be careful not to let her finds out.

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  • olderdude-xx
    1 year ago

    OK, take pictures or paint them....

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  • kikilizzo
    1 year ago

    She sounds very insecure and controlling

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