My younger brother is being a creepy perv

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Ugh. Ok, so I guess my younger brother was at a friend's house unsupervised and somehow they ended up watching the movie Wild Things. I've never seen it but I guess there's a part where a woman says that a guy had his hand down her shorts and fingered her "both places."

So my brother told me about that and asked me what "both places" meant. I changed the subject and he brought it back up later and asked again, telling me what he thought it meant and asking if it was right, he was right but I kept ignoring him and talking about other stuff. As if that wasn't bad enough, then he brought it up AGAIN and asked me if I've ever been "fingered both places"!!!

I told him to drop it but he said he was going to ask my boyfriend if he's ever done that to me next time he comes over. He keeps saying he just wants to know if I've done it and if I liked it.

How do I make him stop? i know he's just trying to get a reaction out of me, I'm trying not to show it but I'm sure he can tell how uncomfortable and annoyed I am. I'm not going to answer, that's just going to make him think it's ok to ask questions like that. What do I do if he doesn't let it go??

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  • McBean
    5 years ago | pl

    It's encouraging that he would trust you to give him accurate information. Tell him it means what he thought it meant, but that you and almost all girls are uncomfortable talking about it because it is very personal. If you say this, it will be a giant step toward preventing him from becoming a creepy perv.

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    • RoseIsabella
      5 years ago

      Bravo!

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      • McBean
        5 years ago

        Well thank you, Rosie. Very touching.

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        • RoseIsabella
          5 years ago

          I just call it like I see it.

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          • McBean
            5 years ago

            *sigh* Imagine all the people, living without creeps. *sigh*.

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            • RoseIsabella
              5 years ago

              It's better this way.

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  • raisinbran
    5 years ago

    Demonstrate and get it over with.

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  • factcheck
    5 years ago

    Try to be mature about it and calmly explain that that’s an inappropriate question. Not just because you’re his sister, he shouldn’t be talking about that with any girl or woman who doesn’t want to talk about it.

    You may also want to get a parent involved so they know how he’s acting and what’s going on at that friend’s house.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Blatantly tell him that this is something that you don't ask your sister. If he persists, let him know that you won't hesitate to tell your parents.

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  • TerriAngel
    5 years ago

    Why the struggle?
    Tell him to Google it.
    Is he slow or something?

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  • SwickDinging
    5 years ago

    How old is your brother? That's kind of important here.

    Generally you should try and answer questions that kids have about sex, IE "what does __ mean". But obviously if he starts asking personal stuff about you then that's different. Tell him it's inappropriate and then tell your parents. It's for them to deal with, not you.

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  • trexagireve
    5 years ago

    He asks to find out if a girl likes that so he needs an answer because he is planning to hit a girl he likes.. Just tell him the truth because if you don't he will be touching and grabbing girls in the most unappropriate way

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  • charli.m
    5 years ago

    How old is he?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      He’s 13.

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      • charli.m
        5 years ago

        So on the border of being old enough to know...technically. I feel weird about a kid that age knowing stuff like that but...ugh.

        And he's being a shit stirrer about it.

        Tell him some stupid nonsensical answer if he won't stfu.

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