Needing my alone time away from bf

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My boyfriend doesn’t need alone time ever and I’m someone that needs it after being around someone for awhile. Whenever I say I need space he gets sad kind of but he’s gotten better at it. We spent 10 days together because we went on a trip. His mom isn’t letting him come back home and hasn’t been letting him come back home bc his dad got sick and she’s scared of covid. My mom usually doesn’t let him stay over night but she said he could bc he’s not allowed to go home rn. But I need my space... so he got a hotel. He got one before too but I just feel bad. Is this normal? Am I a shitty gf for letting him go to a hotel instead of staying with me?

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  • Firsttaste
    3 years ago

    If you feel you need alone time,Then you do just that.It makes sense that his mother is Being safe for him and the other family members.As far as you felling bad about letting him stay with you, Don't do that.It sounds like you are unsure about the relationship at this point.My opinion is Always go with your first instinct, When you 2nd guess your self it usually turns out wrong.You know what you want and what is the correct choice.

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