Normal i'm getting married but not inviting my fiances sister?

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She used her mentally ill father for money while she didn't work just so she could travel to different countries and he became in debt unable to pay off his bills and when he died she didn't even go to his funeral. She is into clubbing and is self centered to the extreme so I didn't invite her and she's saying I'm being mean. Why? I met her three times and that was three too many.

He isn't happy with her either and knows she's self centered but he still tolerates her, I refuse to especially from how she almost made her dad lose his house because she kept asking him for money for tattoos and plane tickets and didn't care he died. He had autism so she took advantage of it so why would I invite her ass to my wedding? She made a Facebook post about it too but I don't care, she's a bad person and I don't want her around me.

Is it normal?

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  • 1234tellmethatyoulovememore
    1 year ago

    You're normal. We need to normalize not allowing toxic family members to abuse us and those we are married to just because we are related to them. If she's a user and manipulator you owe her nothing.

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  • dude_Jones
    1 year ago

    I have a schizotypal half-sister who enjoys telling people that other people are spreading lies about them. She thrives on destroying happy events like weddings and reunions. She is never invited to anything. It’s self- preservation.

    Do what you have to do.

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  • litelander8
    1 year ago

    Fuck shitty people. But it’s his sister so I think it should be up to him ultimately.

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    • Somenormie
      1 year ago

      I support your assertion 🙌

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      1 year ago

      For real I don't want that toxic person anywhere in view you know? Like I get it's his sister but seeing her face makes me sick

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      • litelander8
        1 year ago

        I feel that. But maybe try to focus more on the purpose of the day. It’s one ridiculous bitch. It’s not worth the argument. That’s just one anonymous lady to another.

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  • olderdude-xx
    1 year ago

    I suggest that you allow her to attend the wedding. Family means something - even to those who act badly.

    That small gesture on your part will likely pay for itself someday in someway - even if you don't see it now.

    At the same time you can make it known that in general she is "persona non grata" at your home except for rare visits. There are reasons I have only visited certain brothers and sisters only once every 5 years or so. They are not a positive influence - and I don't need their negativity. At the same time they are family, and I will call them and visit them for certain events and reasons in life.

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  • 1WeirdGuy
    1 year ago

    If he wanted to kick her out thats his decision its his sister. But you shouldnt be the one to do this. Im gonna be honest this comes off as very controlling to me even tho I agree the sister is bad. Dont be that one that turns her spouse against his family. Its not good.

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