Not very social guy applying to job

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I am student in university and I will be applying for a job for one year of my education. The problem is I have no experience working in any kind of work before, I do not have any personal projects or group projects to present to the employers, I have no voluntarily work since I am always afraid of meeting new people and socializing (as if they will kill me). I want to go out and do something but something is stopping me and I can't remove it from my mind. I feel very uncomfortable and unconfident around people (especially ones that lets say stay higher in the society or in my eyes) I like more of a chatting and can express myself easily over the Internet. I do not have self-esteem; always think that I couldn't be able to accomplish certain task, however I see potential in other people; I always think of how they succeed and I am staying in the same place. And whenever I think of that I feel more miserable and can't continue with my life.

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  • TheChildMolester
    8 years ago

    If you Masturbate then you need to stop. 2nd You need to work out and build muscle it will increase your testosterone as well as confidence. 3rd If you are fat you need to get on a diet before building muscle I'd recommend the Atkins diet I've seen it work wonders on the obese.

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    • cocknballs
      8 years ago

      yes, I agree. it's all brain chemistry and hormones. this is how child molester stays away from the kiddies

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  • AbnormallyAwesome
    8 years ago

    The Molester is right. But you can't really do all that in a short time, so here's some other things you could try. (I also struggle with job interviews but I've been on both sides of them.) When it comes to confidence it's: fake it 'til you make it. However confidence isn't everything. You can get a long way with just being polite and friendly. Usually they're not looking for the best and brightest but for a dude that is pleasant to be around.
    Above all be interested. The worst trainees are the ones who don't want to learn and think they're to cool for the job. That is why you will shower and wear something nice. Not because you have to look great, but you should look like you care.

    Now you say you are unconfident and you see others above you. Great! That makes you a humble man. Everyone loves a humble man. You're not threatening, you have respect. You're smart enough to know you can learn from others. Now all you got to do is smile, make eye contact and you're hired.

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