One girl is appearing in all my dreams. is it normal?

I loved one girl from elementary school. She wasn't my first love. I was sure that she liked me too. Then my family move to another country for work. After a few years we came back. I even met her back in school, but our relationship changed. We were in different classes too now. After some time school ends and I start to ignore my memories with her from the past. For a long time (I met her only about twice a year) it worked, but after 5 years she starts to appear in all my dreams that I can remember. She is not definitely main person in those dreams. She is appearing randomly. Even in weird dreams.

For example: I was a passenger on the plane, which needs to crash-land shortly after takeoff. I was sitting in left row closest to the aisle and I know that we are going to crash. I looked on the right side and she was sitting next to me across the aisle. After that plane crashed and dream ends and I wake up.

Sometimes she appears in dreams that looked more like a memory from my past when I was abroad. Correct place,
correct people, sometimes even whole situation from my past, but she was there too.

She is like a ghost in my dreams or character "Mal Cobb" from movie Inception.
I can't tell if she is good or bad. We are never talking in those dreams and almost every dream ends shortly after I notice her.

I actually thought that I will go talk with her about this to solve it. But never did it.
It's now almost 5 years of this dreaming. Maybe I the end I will talk to her after all.

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Comments ( 4 )
  • Nokiot9

    It's gonna be some x-files crap for sure. Ur gonna track her down and she's gonna be all in a coma; astral projecting toward you in your sleep. She's been trying to tell you how to save her man!

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  • umph

    You have a crush on her. It is normal. Go get her!

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  • Miezekatz

    Yes, you really should talk with her. May be you get a chance, go for it!!!! And I would'nt talk to her about your dreams. May be later, if she likes you too...ok? I had these dreams also for a long time...he had moved away too, when we were about 8 ys old. He was my best friend, when he moved away I had only seen him again after one year, but we didn't talk to each other, I was too shy. For years I wanted to find him, my parent didnt help me, they more or less laughed at me. There were not many people in my life, I could really trust in. A few ys ago I found his sister on facebook and I got his mail adress. I wrote to him and he hardly remembered me- and I had never forgotten him, for more than 30 ys....he was married and had 5 kids now...game over. I really had thought I meant something to him, well what can I say. // Just tell her you want to be friends with her and wait and see, goooood luck, mate, ok? She, 47 ys. old

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  • mystery7

    Talk to her. At least you will know one way or the other.

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