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people that act extremely nice scare/creep me out. i don't know why. there is just something strange to me about a person who is always smiling/acting friendly and nice. it's like they're being really nice to hide something or trying to trick you. i really don't know why they scare me. some people are just too god damn friendly
Lol so you're suspicious of their motives! In my experience, really overtly nice people are being that way because:
A. They're at work and they have to be (like with a cashier or waitress)
B. They're in a good mood and they're showing it, or they're not feeling as peppy as they're acting, but they're TRYING to be nice and friendly anyway.
I think it's very rare that people are acting nice to trick you. People just try and put on a friendly demeanor to be pleasant regardless of what they might be going through.
I know the type you're talking about. I had to deal with some of them myself. Whenever they were in their friendly mood, I would always answer back by being even more friendlier than they were to me. That scared the living hell out of them.
The best way to teach them a lesson is beating them at their own game.
Sort of like the first ten minutes of a horror show. Something is wrong but you don't know what it is.
These people are hiding something. Diarrhea on their car windshield and bring out their true self.
Today I had to leave work from a panic attack, due to a "nice" manager who is so creepy that he literally makes my skin crawl. He smiles nonstop like a Ventriloquist dummy, and hovers over me nonstop. He denied watching me when I confronted him about it, he denied watching me. I'm so scared to go back tomorrow. I can't work with this "nice" freak anymore.
Well, I hope these people you refer to are being insincere in some way because there is a difference between good people who engage others and those who are being over the top and fake.
This is a wonderful post. You must be a great person!
You have yourself a beautiful day, now.
Ive come across this but IM one of those nice people.
Most people are selfish and mean so I guess were the minority.
Believe it or not some of us are just nice because were made that way or because it makes us happy.
However the older I get the less nice I am because most people suck and Im not wasting my rainbow stardust on them anymore.
Normal. Watch their eyes. People who are truly being nice will have more "transparent" eyes - wider open with more dilated pupils. People being devious will have eyes less open and with more constricted pupils.