Penis phobia, is it normal ?!

A lot of people are scared of sexual parts / sexual desires. I think it might be worth it to try and remember what happened around the time you became afraid of them.

That being said, visually they aren't that pleasing... kinda wrinkly, like a worm or something. They also represent men being very forward, dominant, showing their sexuality and taking what they want by penetrating ("conquering")

Maybe a good, consensual encounter would change it? I dont like the way they look, but when I see one I try to think about the way they feel! Besides, once its in you, you cant see it. You can only feel it, and if there is love and happiness and closeness, it should feel GREAT! :)

lol bullshit. you know you want it

This may sound unlikely but I can totally relate to this. However, instead of penises I have a phobia of vaginas (I swear I'm not joking). So you're not alone.

Im scared of both.

I think its not that weird to have a penis phobia. I knew a lot of girls who dont like penis or even hate it. But still like boys. They just dont like that organ. And its totally fine. You can have great sex without ever touching or even watching a penis. Many guys are very focused on the penis, but its not the only sexual organ a guy has. I rarly use my penis at all and I had wonderful sex with girls with penis and cum phobia. I just didnt undress my pants :)

Im not scared of vagina's but some turn me right off. the ones with the big flappy lips that just hang there. not attractive

there is nothing really beautiful about male genitalia, but if a guy is good at grooming and has a strong sense of hygiene, then there shouldn't be anything repulsive about it. You say you're terrified, could this be due to a bad sexual experience in the past? Maybe the source of the fear lies deep in your sexual psyche. I have heard women express their general dislike of male genitalia, but they have always been lesbian women.

It sounds like you're a lesbian! It's ok to not be sexually attracted to men, or their genitals...

To me this is normal, I dislike sharing showers after a workout or swim, And so old dude with his ball hanging down and crinkled old cock hanging out, Makes me want to yell don't even come close to me, I don't want them around me but for a girl you would be 100% lesbian to not love zi cock :)

It melts in your mouth

I can understand, they really are'nt that visually pleasing are they. Well what you need to work on when you meet a guy or flirt with a guy or something is NOT thinking about the penis. If you think about the guy as a person and focus on him as a human and personality and face etc and block out the images and ideas of his penis, then i think you will stand a chance of becoming close with a guy without freaking out and thinking about his horrible dick.
Then, if the guy is trustworthy enough and you're close enough, you can 'fess up and tell him you're struggling with a phobia of penises.
If you feel brave enough I think you should try and see what having one inside of you is like. You don't have to see it, you can close your eyes or be on top or whatever. Just make sure the guy knows about this, respects it and understands and wants to help. If he doesn't then he's not the right one for you. You need to meet a guy who will help you through this and help you overcome it and help you to see and realise that penises are good things that bring pleasure and feel great and can potentially create a life. Look at the positive things and the less physical side of a penis, and focus on those :)x

I'm in my late teens.
My phobia developed not to long ago.
I guess there's a possibility that I'll find a guy, but that's slim chance...

I think it's probably quite normal to feel this way up to a certain age and level of maturity. Lol, I know that someone simply telling you how amazing they feel won't convince you. However, it's possible that if you meet a guy who you feel extremely attracted to, your outlook on their genitals will change and you'll be ready to accept the male physique in its entirety.
As for penetration, you could start experimenting in your own time and comfort. I suppose most girls start off exploring things with their own fingers. Then there is also the use of tampons which takes some getting used to. It's a gradual process, I suppose. Once step at a time. As you become more familiar and comfortable with your own body, hopefully you'll find that this is nothing to be scared of.

It's hard to remember what happened to make me scared of them...
It's all a blank. There aren't many guys that I find myself being attracted to, even then it's rare for me to want to have sex with a guy. There are only two guys I would considered doing it with, but I'm not sure if they are attracted to girls...

That's interesting. I'm trying to understand it better. Would you say you're scared of penises as objects or is it more about the potential penetration they represent?