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imo I think that people who don't like being rejected are insecure as well as having severe self esteem problems.
But...
I would like to have your take on if you agree or disagree with it.
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Nobody *likes* being rejected, but some people have a very hard time accepting it. I do think it can sometimes be related to insecurity and/or low self esteem. It's definitely a letdown regardless, though.
I think a lot of people tend to over-analyze the situation and think "what's wrong with me?" when maybe it could be that they and the other person are simply not compatible, despite nothing really being "wrong" with either of them. It's easy to do, and definitely easier for those who struggle with their self esteem and insecurity.
I agree. If you don't like rejection, it's likely that you build up subconscious angst when you're confronted with it. There's a sort of psychological shadow where fears and such are "hidden" away so you're not entirely conscious of them.
So if you see someone become disgusted at rejection, and I would implore to look at all the evidence to get the best picture, then there's a good chance that on some level they can't stand rejection or even think they're too good to be rejected
I always had trouble dealing with rejection because I was constantly being put down as a child. It’s definitely insecurity.
Well, most people don't exactly enjoy being rejected, but if someone freaks out, because they were rejected then there's definitely a problem.
What I found funny about people on dating sites is that they'd always demand to know why and then proceed to debate the reasons. XD
And they get so aggressive as to they get rejected its always things like " But why? Don't you really like me??? " or some shit like that.
Those people don't seem to realize that the needy part of them that can't understand simple shit is one of the reasons they keep getting rejected. XD
I don't think anyone should ever have to explain to another person why they are not attracted to that person.
I was one of those people that thought it was ok to give people a reason. I learned that people just don't seem to like honesty even if it's calmly and politely explained to them. After a while I just started blocking and ghosting people when they got that way. XD
No one likes rejection... But yeah those who handle it extremely poorly like throwing tantrums, insulting the person who rejected them or such are deeply insecure. That's a fact.
Everyone will get rejected occasionally. Even very attractive people. You simply can't impress everyone and there will always be someone who finds you not their type, annoying, uninteresting or something else.
It's funny I always seem to like guys I can't have cause they either arnt interested or are taken possibly both.
But the guys who want me I have no interest in. Expect the last guy I dated he approached me and was exactly my type.
There was one guy who was interested who I liked back only I was still getting over my ex. Now that I've moved on he's not interested it seems. Life do be like that haha
I have a hard time facing rejection, or had. I'm a lot better with it now, but for me it was the self hate and low self esteem. When someone rejects you for whatever reason, whether thats being rejected by a girl or them not laughing at your joke, it reaffirms my belief that I suck and everybody hates me etc etc. It's a really unhealthy cycle that i'm glad to be out of now.
I dont think anyone likes rejection. If someone has a FEAR of rejection or is preoccupied with rejection; i can see it stemming from something deeper.
All people dislike rejection and have insecurities.
How they react to it is what differs.
I dont think anyone likes to be rejected but you do need to have a lot of confidence to get rejected and laugh about it. If you dont care about being rejectee you can get laid easier