People who lecture on personality don’t have it themselves

I’ve had people tell me all the time when it comes to asking women out: “It doesn’t matter how you look. Personality is everything”.

Those same people don’t have a good personality in my book because I was with them on multiple occasions when I tried going to bars and for example they put two whiskey shots in front of me and I didn’t want to chug them.

-They: “Why the f**k not?”
-Me: “I don’t feel a need to be drunk”
-They: “Why the f**k you don’t?”
-Me: “It doesn’t help anybody”
-They: “Man the f**k up and quit b**ching around”

These people would brag about how many girls they had sex with and are very cocky. I want no part of your ‘personality’ if that’s how you act.

For me, personality means being kind, honest and helping people in need. Not being expressive, funny, cocky and macho.

I’m fine with being boring if that’s what some people think. The women who say I’m boring aren’t the types that I’d be interested in marrying. Kindness over everything.