Permission before you jerk-off to her.

Well, that would be a new approach, wouldn't it? Let us know how many girls let you have the real thing after you tell them you intend to toss one off in their honor!

Ok, coming from a girl, that is just creepy. I feel really gross and dirty when I catch a guy openly staring at me. It makes me want to cry and cut off my boobs or something like that. But when they're more subtle about it, I don't mind. Seriously, if a guy asked my permission to jack off, I would probably need therapy for years. I'm cool with it but KEEP IT TO YOURSELF. I don't want to hear that. Again... KEEP IT TO YOURSELF.

So yeah, there's probably a couple girls who've cried over what you said to them and/or had nightmares. You should stop.

You are basically completely insane.

And how is your girlfriend coming out of the shower with pants on?

you sir, are my hero. and i shall strive to follow in your footsteps.

just wondering though, your friends don't get pissed off when you check out there girlfriends? knowing that you are so upfront about it i myself would be a little worried that you wouldn't bother resisting banging my girlfriend. on the other hand though. she shouldn't let you in the first place and if she did she shouldn't be my girlfriend. so how could anybody be mad about that?! i answered my own question!

one thing that cracks me up is that my boyfriend says he could never do that with a girl (secretly jack off to her) until he meet me. He said he felt so wrong doing it, but he couldn't help it. I think it's funny now, but if some guy were to confronted me and be like "hey, i jacked off to you last night" i might be a little freaked lmao But Honestly, its a weird complement when you notice a guy is checking you out. I mostly have guy friends, and we talk about EVERYTHING you can think of.. i guess it really just depends on your relationship with the girl or vise versa.

You are very brave, I will be thinking of you when I choke my chicken tonight.

i dont think every girl will agree with you just saying im going to jerk off to you,you may seem a bit foward to them thats not honesty its just being an idiot thinking your clever because you say everything to them.you will never have a girlfriend if you keep sityting there telling her your going to jerk off over her friends and she sees you checking them out!

Even though that is clearly not the norm, there is nothing wrong with not being normal when you are clearly acting much better and honorable than what is considered normal.

Sorry, but this seems kind of ridiculous to me. It's fantasy, that's all. There's nothing wrong with fantasizing about someone, it's completely natural. Do you also feel you have be open with people about non-sexual fantasies or dreams? Have you ever imagined, even for a second, killing someone, hurting someone, insulting them? Do you apologize? Why not? People fantasize, how is that creepy or wrong? I don't think this makes you a good person. I mean, it's not bad or wrong, but it is stupid.

Still, I don't like the fact that a man was jacking off next to me and my cousin in the theaters. He was not aroused because the aliens came to rescue the people on earth. It was, because we were wearing skirts.
BUT wtf, that kind of openess is wrong.

Dude, you're awesome.
Open, truthful, respectful, etc.
You have great relationships with your friends, and you deserve it.

Good job

It depends on whether you're a hottie or not... if someone who I thought was sexy said that I'd be complimented and it would probably make me quite likely to get involved :)

If, on the other hand, you are rough then I'd probably feel quite weirded out, turned off and probs a bit sick.

Creating that image in someone's head is quite a risky strategy.

Good luck.

It sounds like you want to get laid, and that's why you're acting that way.

It sounds a bit disrespectful to make women uncomfortable like that. You treat women like they are walking sex opportunities.

A lot of people feel violated by such frankness.
I'd guess they mostly think it's rude and/or creepy.

The coy games we play with women allow us to flirt respectfully, and without presenting a threat.

If it doesn't come naturally to you, try watching romantic comedies to see how it works.

i love to tell my wife i rubbed one off on her panties

Like most people, you are a pervert. I for on applaud you for defying social convention, and not even trying to hide your perversion.

Wow major bro code violations there dude

Thats your friends girlfriend, jesus, tell him that you think shes fine, dont just say to her, "nice cameltoe, have you noticed my erection?" Say to your friend shes banging! Its weird, but then again if other girls like the same stuff you do, who am i to say its wrong?

What do these girls say wen u tell them they have a nice camel toe ? Heheh and leave it. Or eww and pick it out n walk away?

What do these girls say when u tell them they have a nice camel toe ? Like hehe thanks and leave it. Or eww and pick it out an walk away. ?

I love honesty, in all things. I wish guys were more like you.

see, i'm the opposite. i am completely unable to fantasize about anything...something wrong with my brain

when i watch porn i have to fuck the monitor

i go through about 3 flat panels a week..

hard life

Damn We Need More Guys Like You.

you brag about stuff as well. Seem's a bit pervy in most instances lol.
Hmm.

err yeah i suppose the confidence & honesty is ok (a little cocky sometimes in how you say/go about it though)
i'm sure your male friends aren't thrilled by the whole thing, probably very wary of you, especially around their girlfriends?

i think itd b cool if i guy thot of me n jerked off hehe

hahahaha

dude one word. amazing haha

honesty is the best policy!

if this isnt normal it should be

"Rememberyourlimits" I agree 100% with your comments.

Pretty much everyone has fantasies about other people, strangers or not.

Often times it is polite to keep those fantasies to yourself, however that depends entirely on your relationship with the other person and on your own moral standing.

I can think of cases where a girl would be flattered or otherwise glad you discussed it, however I can also think of cases where a girl could be offended or disgusted in talking about it, when in fact she would have no problem with you doing it on your own without making it public.

Think about it... unless you know them well, you don't know how they're going to react or what they're going to think about you or your actions.

I think it would be very hard to be so open with anyone unless you knew fairly well. Are you so open with strange women?

Taking pics without consent IS wrong.

Honestly, I probably have a very different opinion than a normal girl, but if I guy that I kind of knew at elast, came up to me and said that they had been jerking off thinking of me... I think it's sweet. I know it sounds totally twisted, but to me, that means they were actually being considerate and thinking of me and at least telling me than being some stalker-type to jack off looking at me without me ever knowing. I'd rather know it, so then I might even make them more happy(as long as they're not too freaky). I just have to be careful doing that though... I don't need to be raped. >.<

I think it's extremely hot, and it would totally do it for me if a guy friend of mine openly let me know that I turned him on. That kind of confidence is irresistible.

Yes! This is the new wave!

My first impression is that this is a roundabout way of trying to get in their pants. You secretly or subconsciously hope that by letting them know of your intentions, they'll sleep with you.

lol, just a wild theory. I can't say for sure, of course.

a very useful trait for:

job interview (female interviewer)
meeting gf/fiance's mom

btw.. gf? fiance? hmm.. she knows that the love and respect you have for her is comparable to the love and respect you have for your favorite porn star. She would be crazy about you, dude.

trying not to check a chick out is retarted there assets are there for reasons

you know what if you looked at my girlfriend like that and i caught you i'd brake your face nice and simple
what do you think this means you have some sort of respect for women? it just means your more womanizing

I like to send them a registered letter to let them know I'm about to choke my chicken to them.

I must've missed a word.. d'you ask permission before you torture the todge all over her or do you not? And when, and, erm, in front of her boyfriend. Admirably abnormally brave are you imho but i can't help but wonder where all the filthy volcanic joy of sex would reside if like you we furtively cowered hot dogs all lost our repressions..

What is this - a 12 year old's sexual manifesto of "I woulds?" You are day dreaming.

Well Lord Byron, we who live in society have rules. Some of them unwritten, and how do I put this incest, bestiality, rape fantasies, are not normal, and well not be rude, but sense you do not believe in censorship, I feel I ought to speak freely, sort of sick.

We have all gotten the boner, when sitting next to a hot chick, most of us know to hide it. Do some math in our heads, to calm us down, or if you are a math nerd, think of pornographic images. For some reason, pi really gets me going, I digress.

Censor yourself, create some balance between you id, ego and super ego. Understand that the rest of us, are prudish, puritan, uptight, Victorian minded compared to yourself. While I can deal with Edwardian clothing reform, I don't think we should have a society were every guy walks around with a boner, and every female is in mid orgasm. Just my two cents.

(You said you dislike censorship, so you can't claim I am rude, unless you are a hypocrite, than you can do whatever you want)

My first thought is why would any girl wear skintight pants in the shower...

I think it is brave to ask a girl if ya can pleasure yourself to thoughts of her, though I hope you do it politely.

It sounds like you are a nice guy.

(I can see where it could be a problem for a sexy girl though - heck if all the guys that pleasured themselves to Me had to ask me first, the line would stretch for a mile and most of my day would be taken up with replies.)

October

i wish i had female friends to watch porn with. it might go somewhere.

well, it's weird if you just go up to a chick and ask if you can jerk off to her. But i think that it's cool that you're comfortable with just talking to chicks about porn and stuff.

I dont make it like clearly obvious, but if i check out a girl and Im caught i have no problem in admitting it or telling them why Im doing it. I also dont care if my girlfriends catch me watching porn or whatever its normal, and I dont have a problem talking to my girlfriend about my sexual fantasies or even my friends.. Dont change who u are, its not gonna get you anywhere... my 2 cents

You are an honest person and should be proud of yourself. But, you might get in trouble with strangers. Learn to tone it down a little. You don't have to be frank all the time.

i think thats brave actualy, I try not to check girls out even if they catch my eye, I dont have any female friends though so cant realy comment on watching movies like that with them lol but good on you, i dont think people should be ashamed, we all get atracted to the oposite sex and get horny, its just natural.

I act differently around women, not to say that I think them the "weaker sex" or anything like that but because women are special and I've found that in today's world men don't treat women that much differently than they do men. I try to let women know that there are still gentlemen in this world and that there are people looking for them.