Phobia of straight men, iin?

Lol. I'm straight and I'm coming to get you.

Don't flatter yourself.

No, it's normal. See a Psychologist, it's time to heal. Straight men are everywhere, and it's very unhealthy for you to be afraid of them so much.

U need a serious help

This sounds like a troll by a gay person. HAHA funniest troll every! XD I am straight and I approve this message. Thanks for making my day OP. I needed something like this.

You may have been sexually abused as a child without the ability to remember the occurrence or occurrences that it stemmed from.

I hate men hitting on me too, but it's mostly because they do it at really inappropriate times and in really pushy ways. It sounds like your phobia goes deeper than that, then, and you might want to talk to a doctor or therapist.

well done m8 for stating that not ALL gay males ( females too ) fit the gay STEREOTYPE ! i.m gay & i DEFFO dont fit it . the usual response is .... u can.t be gay . u dont LOOK &/or SOUND it ! lol :D .... too many ppl STEREOTYPE & it shld STOP ! .... & all the best avant-garde . i wish i cld help u . but feel free to mssg if/anytime u want to ok :o) kane

Maybe you should stop thinking straigth men are shallow husks of sexmongering and violence. You make them to be that in your mind, and totally ignore that he might be a loving and caring, complex, and like everyone unique person. In other words he is the one who should be offended by you and your preconceived opinion of him.
I know a girl like this. She's very neurotic and OCD-like, also known as a control freak. She thinks I'm an asshole because I don't automaticly jump through a dozen hoops for her, like everyone around her does, or she'll flip out or something. She ain't ever gonna give anything back to me so why should I bother...and why do some other people seem to bother.
In my opinion women and gay men have a much higher tolerance for this amount of hoop jumping needed to interact with a person, even if that person doesnt really give anything back.

Avante-Garde,if a psychiatrist doesn't help, maybe it's about time to allow God to intervene into your situation. Remember, He is our great Healer and it is His nature to heal. From my judgement, your fear of men might be from a childhood trauma or just a lie from the enemy you have listened to and believed in and has now become a reality in your life. God wants you to snap out of it. He did not give you a spirit of fear but he gave you a spirit of love and of compassion towards your brothers and sisters. I strongly suggest that you pray about it. Claim your freedom in Jesus!

You shouldn't be afraid of men being predators!
You should be afraid of Predators being predators!
Something that can whipe out a whole squad of super duper marines is something really scary.
A man might be able to chase you down the road but a predator just tells you that you are an ugly son of a bitch and then blows you up!
So: Next time you go into a bar, before being scared of men, take a look around for a 6ft 6" large, yellow skinned, mean looking monster that has its laser sights pointed at you!
If you do, remember: You have no time for bleeding and then get to the chopper!

we are the predators or the protectors, be afraid or feel safe my friend or foe

I don't know. I guess sometimes it's a bit of a guess. When, I go my starbucks, I like the people there. They don't scare me. Sometimes, anything about a man can scare me: if he keeps staring at me or other people intensely, if he's by himself, if there aren't many people around, etc. I guess it's men in general. You can't always tell if a man is gay or not. But I feel like men with more feminine qualities are safer to be with as supposed to more masculine qualities.

Look deep within yourself maybe you can find the answer

Maybe because your gay and bi as well however not all straight guys r like that

Go get professional help now! They can help you.

look behind you @_@

going on your logic you should half hate bisexuals. it just doesn't make any sense to me, im a guy and i'm cool, you should get over your hatred

If you don't trust your current psychiatrist, I'd suggest getting a new one. For any of the problems he's meant to be helping you with, whether it be your anorexia, this fear of men or anything else, it won't be helping you at all if you don't feel he is good enough or you can't trust him. There are a whole range of types of psychological therapy, maybe you should start seeing a psychiatrist who uses a different type of therapy if it isn't working out with this therapist. Most people can be helped by therapists, but not everyone is helped by every type of therapy, if that makes sense.

I actually get where you're coming from. Except with me it's sort of with women. Although, I don't hate women but rather am weary when I'm around them. The only advice I can give you is that same things that I keep telling myself. Which is that, people are going to hurt you, so why bother hanging around them.

Men are everywhere and there isn't any herland around here. I suggest talking to a boy, someone who you can trust, assuming you know any.

Do you fear that they'll rape you? I don't mean to sound vulgar, it's just straight men are usually stereotyped as "all they want is to get in your pants." It's simply not true. Not every man is going to hurt you, I wish I could show you that. When did this fear start? What does your psychiatrist say when you tell him about this? phobia?

Its true, you should probably seek help for this. Males compose half of the population and are an important aspect to procreation. They have as much place in the foodchain as females. this could be a psychological response to abuse toward you from a male, or male guardian who mistreated you. Either way, figure out what you hate most-- what the core issue is-- and talk it over with trusted people. Hate masks fear.

Are you a lesbian? I am sitting here questioning how do you go out to find a mate.

A man made you. BE AFRAID!