Pregnant women
Is it normal for pregnant women to just be angry the entire pregnancy?
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litelander8
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I have been the entire time but it is tiring being a punching bag every day. I bring alot to the table and I am supportive.
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litelander8
Dude. Just pretend to care. Put in the extra effort. It’s so hard having a partner who is uncooperative.
Being constantly stressed out during a pregnancy is literally the worst. For her and the baby.
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Anonymous Post Author
I dont have to pretend. I do care. But she always pulls the she has it worse than me card. Its like she despises me because I go to work which she says is a break. Its not really a break I dont get to go drink beers on a couch. Im working and she stays home and just always bitches. She always wants to throw it in my face how easy my life is compared to hers when she doesnt work and I work alot and do other chores.
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TheMightyOz
Advance warning: Dykes that marry men to get children off of them are dangerous. If she has always had infrequent sex with you (less than 9 times a year), you've got big big problems in your future.
Hint: get a job that requires lots of travel.
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litelander8
So get childcare and she can get a job. She obviously is going crazy in the house.
You see that there’s a problem. But you’re not doing anything to help her.
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raisinbran
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litelander8
It literally is. 😂😂
So is birth control. And so is just putting up with men in general. 😂
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Mark92
And stop blaming men for everything. You are assuming its all this guy's fault without knowing the whole circumstances. I don't know them in person but as the principal of this site I comment based on what is written in the post, as er which this guy is taking care of his pregnant wife, and she is complaining all the time, then you wrote:
"So get childcare and she can get a job. She obviously is going crazy in the house."
When the OP said she doesn't want to do the job, and if she does she can put the baby to childcare herself and do her own work. The op is not entitled to fulfill her dreams just because he is a man and she is a woman. Its funny how man-bashing is treated as a joke, but making sexist jokes about women is criminal. At least I am writing based on what the post says rather than blaming a specific gender based on my personal perception.
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properlyprosper
Go for walks man and just don’t complain take a breath snd grab a fluff mediator like a parent class or a therapist. I think men really just don’t understand what women go through with our bodies when we’re pregnant.
I mean periods mess us up, this is a whole life growing.
With emotions and feelings of it’s own.
Without intending to, As well as without seeing it, you are being selfish. Because you aren’t her. You aren’t having this physical experience and can never begin to understand how crazy it feels to her to grow a whole life in there. It’s literally feeding off of her dude it’s akin to a parasite, 🦠
Think of every action movie you’ve ever seen with a hero or villain powering up or toppling over with energy.. too much sometimes drives them crazy, it’s two of her in one and a bit of YOUR DNA 🧬 believe it or boy your genetic code is imprinting itself not only in that child, but in HER. Literally.
Yeah do your best, but it’s not the absolute best you can do because you can’t understand where she’s at from one moment to the next and beyond getting her what she needs right now it’s not important.
Shit I’m a highly sexual person, I love compliments, and they were times when I was pregnant with my husband where he’s complimented me and it sent a ripple of anger through me accompanied by disgust..Do some more digging Dad,
a question and answer forum is a great way to get a push and some feedback.
But think outside the box here, lol I’m so glad I saw this because men are oblivious at no fault of their own, they are built as our opposites and cannot begin to understand what it’s like to feel as we do, growing babies a baby or bleeding from our hoo haaaas.. hahaJust smile and ask what you can do for her and say i love you lots, try to be there when she needs you, and get out of the way when she doesn’t. Yes, it’s normal.
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properlyprosper
Yep. I’m normally a very chill person, never argued with my partner in two years.. then I get pregnant, my whole mood shifted and everything he did ticked me off.. about six to nine months after, everything was back to normal lol but there was some post parting fir me and I had issues holding things down the entire time too so I was miserable on top if irritable. It depends on the woman, some women it invigorates, others it takes it’s toll. The body is creating a whole child. Start shoving things she likes in her face and don’t fight back, go for a walk and come home with her foods lol just be as supportive as possible and she’ll soften some but I’m just saying it’s perfectly normal to be a psycho out of nowhere over a ketchup stain and then cry about it later, and then say “oh my pregnant a**” etc…
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hauntedbysandwiches
Not the entire but it's normal for her to be more on edge/emotional at times
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Whatintarnation
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Mark92
Well I can't help much cause my gf and I never wanted kids and were always extra precautios to make sure it that way for 5 years now, but yeah women can be moody during pregnancy, its nature. You can hire a therapist to help her control her mood.
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properlyprosper
Also get her out of the house dude what are you thinking 😂😂😂 of course she’s going insane that was partially my problem too when he finally started getting me out of the house like calmed down. Pregnant women need to get out of the house they need to walk around, or it makes them fatter than their supposed to be and restless And I imagine, very very very irritable!
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SkullsNRoses
I’m not a gynaecologist but I don’t think so, no. Are you asking about yourself or your partner?
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SkullsNRoses
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Yes she says she's sick all the time and I usually give her space when shes mad but its getting to be too much.
For example yesterday she was checking our kids stomach for the 3rd time that day saying theres a rash and I looked at it and said "it looks fine" and she blows up on me saying "I know its fine! You say everythings fine!" And stormed off like I greatly offended her. There was literally no rash there idk what she was even looking at. It was plain skin color. I just ignored this.
Then the child gets hurt while my wife in the other room and Im right there. I was playing guitar and I put the guitar down and tended to the kid and he was fine. So he goes in the room with her and then asks her for milk and she says I was playing the guitar and ignoring him while he cried which was just a lie. This sparked the biggest fight we have had in years I left the house.
It sounds silly when I write it down but anytime I am around her now I'm being put down and I do not think I deserve it.
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