Pressured into doing sex

So my mum has said many times, in order to have a "proper" relationship you have to have sex with the person your with. I'm too scared too. Even my mum was bitchy about my sister still being a virgin at 21 (Mum said "Its a bit weird, usually people have sex younger than 21")
I know I'm not ready for sex!
I did research apparently,the average age in the UK to lose your virginity is 18 that's okay I guess and even in my favorite country it's at least the age of 22 (wish I was in that country). I do feel pressured by my mum a little. I also lied and said that I have already had sex, she believed me but hate the fact that I had to lie, so I don't have to feel uncomfortable when mum talks about this stuff. What do I do?

Voting Results
21% Normal
Based on 19 votes (4 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 14 )
  • --Quinn--

    That's really weird, you should let her know she makes you uncomfortable. A mom shouldn't be doing that to her kid.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Dustyair

    Have it when you want to, it's that simple, it's just sex. But be safe and use protection.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • bogbrush

    People will put you under pressure to do all sorts of things in life. Just keep saying no until you're ready to say yes. Your mum should be proud of you instead of putting you at risk from unwanted pregnancy and std's. It's really no one else's business anyway.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • RoseIsabella

    Tell your mum to bugger off.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • shoka2322

    Don't do it until after you're married. Your mom sounds like a sinful witch. Don't listen to her!

    Comment Hidden ( show )
      -
    • Bipolarjetlag

      I will pray for you child 🕯😇🕯

      Comment Hidden ( show )
  • DingusKhan

    If you a girl, let me know! I'll help!! Your mom can even watch!!

    Comment Hidden ( show )
      -
    • What is wrong with you?

      Comment Hidden ( show )
    • Sicko

      Comment Hidden ( show )
    • LalisaJisoo

      ???

      Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Slowlymovingfast

    Get away from your mom.

    She shouldn't want you to fuck until you're grown up

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • lordofopinions

    You have sex when you meet the right guy. Your mom is weird.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
      -
    • dude814o

      even if you find yourself meeting the right guy again aqain and again, making it so nobody is the right guy, you just keep meeting more men and having sex with them and enjoying it more and more...

      Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Nickvey

    i think your MUM knows men very well , she is right we want your pussy all the fucking time and if we dont get it we move on to one that will give it. Ask your dad if im right.

    Comment Hidden ( show )