Pussy licking tips

For the vast majority of women, the clitoris is where it's at. Some women really enjoy vaginal penetration during cunnilingus, some find it distracting or actively dislike it, and some are meh about it.

Your bud isn't completely wrong about the G-spot thing, but he is totally wrong if he believes that all women enjoy exactly the same thing. Some women really like G-spot stimulation, but other women just aren't particularly sensitive on the front wall of their vagina. For other women, when that area is stimulated, what they experience is a feeling that they identify as a sudden, urgent need to pee. Which kinda kills the moment.

I consider G-spot stimulation to be an advanced technique that a guy should only attempt when there's some sort of relationship between the couple and they're able to comfortably communicate about different things they could try. The results can be spectacular if the guy knows what he's doing and the woman is into it, but I really don't think it's something to go for right off the bat.

The most important thing about cunnilingus is to pay close attention to the responses of the receiver. If she's lying there like a lump and checking her social media feed on her phone, she's probably not feeling it. Maybe because you're just not doing what she likes. Maybe because there's nothing you can do down there that she will like. Or maybe because she's just not in the mood. If a woman has any sense, she should give some hints about what she likes - either by the sounds she makes or how she moves around. Don't fall into the trap your bud may have and believe that you know what she likes better than she does; it's her body, and the odds are that she knows it a hell of a lot better than any guy ever will.

This may sound really silly, but something you might try in the early stages is imagining you're writing the alphabet in capital letters with the tip of your tongue on the front area of her vulva. The flicks and licks in (as far as she's concerned) a completely unpredictable pattern can have an interesting effect. If you get her motor running with that technique, then you can shift to giving the clitoris more direct attention, varying the speed, pressure and exact location of your licking depending on how she reacts.

Something else you might try is making some appreciative sounds. You don't have to go full-on porn video nasty, just make it sound like you're enjoying yourself with an occasional "Mmmmm" and little whimpers and groans. Many women have serious, deep-seated ick-issues with their own genitals, and you letting her know that you like her pussy will most likely help her get over that and be more relaxed and in the moment, and that always makes sex better.

Suck her clit and insert 2 in the pink 1 in the stink.

Jesus, I don't understand you people. First of all, I cannot imagine how someone is that important where you put the most filthy cavity on another one of the most filthiest part of the body.